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[00:00:00] we try to bring you an interview a [00:00:02] discussion something different and you [00:00:04] guys remember the nword girl that's the [00:00:06] moniker that everyone has given her [00:00:07] because it's a white girl that dropped [00:00:09] the n-word can white girls do that these [00:00:11] days I don't know you be the judge but [00:00:13] we are going to invite her in for a [00:00:15] conversation so to jog your memory uh [00:00:17] her name is not in fact nword girl it's [00:00:19] actually Lily gtis and she jumped on the [00:00:22] internet cooking some chicken and she [00:00:25] had a bit of a rant take a listen I'm [00:00:28] sick and tired of all girls getting [00:00:30] blamed or like guys certain guys [00:00:34] thinking that all girls are gold [00:00:36] diggers I don't know if it's because you [00:00:38] get your information from those Street [00:00:41] interviews in like Miami at 3:00 a.m. [00:00:43] outside of a [00:00:44] nightclub you're getting the opinion of [00:00:46] some dumb [00:00:47] [ __ ] [00:00:49] and uh immigrants fresh off the boat [00:00:52] looking for a green card yes they are [00:00:54] probably gold diggers but that's the [00:00:57] exception I'm the rule every everybody I [00:01:00] know who's married right now they're [00:01:02] married to broke ass [00:01:04] [ __ ] [00:01:06] um and they don't care we don't give a [00:01:08] about your money I couldn't care less [00:01:11] about your money okay my type is broke [00:01:15] mechanics and surf for hippie dudes who [00:01:17] just want to live in a shack and Surf [00:01:19] and have babies all I ask of a man is [00:01:22] that you're competent you're um you're [00:01:27] not a [ __ ] if somebody broke into our [00:01:29] house at 3 3: a.m. you would know how to [00:01:31] grab a gun and shoot a [00:01:33] mother and shoot a mother I don't know I [00:01:35] think that's actually very funny the end [00:01:37] there what did you guys think do you [00:01:38] agree with her is she totally out of [00:01:39] line for dropping the nword is it [00:01:41] totally fine that she said it because [00:01:42] everyone says it these days in that [00:01:44] context and I guess the biggest question [00:01:46] is does she actually have a point are [00:01:49] most women not like the women that we're [00:01:51] seeing online that's what we have coming [00:01:54] up for you on Candace [00:02:00] [Applause] [00:02:04] [Music] [00:02:10] all right guys so she definitively has a [00:02:12] potty mouth that's what I'm going to [00:02:13] term it but she's also got some good [00:02:15] points I think and I'd like to hear more [00:02:17] from her she just kind of became an [00:02:18] internet sensation and now she's [00:02:20] speaking a little bit about politics and [00:02:22] I just genuinely wanted to know more [00:02:24] about Lily gtis she's 25 years old Lily [00:02:27] welcome to the Candace show thank you so [00:02:30] much I'm so happy to be here so I was [00:02:32] just asking you offline but I guess my [00:02:34] first question is how has it been [00:02:36] finding internet Fame when your first [00:02:38] video goes viral what are you what are [00:02:39] you going through tell us uh it's kind [00:02:42] of strange you know you all hear about [00:02:44] the same things that happen to people [00:02:46] the doxing the the haters and all that [00:02:49] but you don't really understand it until [00:02:50] it actually happens to you so I think [00:02:53] it's definitely very interesting I've [00:02:54] gotten to where I kind of like mute it [00:02:56] out now so it doesn't really bother me [00:02:57] but you know it's a lot first as anyone [00:03:01] who's gone through this as you would [00:03:02] know as anyone else would know who's [00:03:04] gone through this it's it's a lot that's [00:03:06] for sure what has been the most [00:03:08] difficult part of Internet [00:03:10] fame um I would say the conspiracies and [00:03:13] like when people get it so wrong and I'm [00:03:15] sitting here listening I'm like no it's [00:03:16] so wrong you don't even know what you're [00:03:18] talking about it's it never goes goes [00:03:20] away by the way I I read a conspiracy by [00:03:22] myself I've learned to enjoy them and [00:03:24] appreciate them and I'll like send them [00:03:25] around to my family but I read a [00:03:26] conspiracy theory the other day that my [00:03:28] husband was Jewish and and that was news [00:03:30] to me I was very excited I said oh this [00:03:32] is great you're I guess and then [00:03:34] sometimes I'll respond to them and I'm [00:03:35] like can you just show me the website [00:03:37] where you're getting this information [00:03:38] from because I would I would just love [00:03:40] to read it um so I do want to talk about [00:03:42] your video because it did make a bit of [00:03:44] a splash for first and foremost for two [00:03:45] reasons was because you said the nword [00:03:47] I'm a person that actually believes [00:03:49] don't put it into music if people can't [00:03:51] say it and you obviously were not [00:03:52] directing it at a black person you were [00:03:54] saying it in the context that everyone [00:03:56] says it in their music so I had no [00:03:58] issues with it at all but the more [00:04:00] important part of your video was I think [00:04:02] the main point that you were delivering [00:04:03] is that the internet is not real life [00:04:06] like women are not all what you see on [00:04:08] only fans and what you see on your [00:04:09] Instagram page so I'd like to know what [00:04:11] motivated the video what made you [00:04:13] suddenly jump up and do a what I'm going [00:04:14] to term a Candace or a Kanye rant um and [00:04:18] what were you yeah what was your mindset [00:04:20] and what did you want people to get from [00:04:21] it so I had been arguing with my [00:04:23] brothers that whole that whole day about [00:04:26] this cuz they were like no girls are [00:04:27] just like whatever cuz they listen to [00:04:29] the these interviews like everyone else [00:04:31] the street interviews that kind of [00:04:32] definitely they're digging from the [00:04:34] bottom of the barrel it's not like [00:04:35] you're getting your best and your [00:04:36] brightest and uh they were up there [00:04:39] barbecuing and whatever so I was like I [00:04:41] went into the kitchen I started you know [00:04:43] marinating some chicken wings to put on [00:04:44] the grill and I was like I got to make a [00:04:46] video about this because I'm still [00:04:47] pissed so made a video about it um got [00:04:51] flamed for my cooking skills and um yeah [00:04:55] and accidentally let a word so out that [00:04:57] I you know people say in a general since [00:05:00] but yeah it turned into something it was [00:05:02] not supposed to be but yeah it was [00:05:04] basically just a backyard rent inspired [00:05:07] an angry argument with my brothers well [00:05:09] I would love to hear more about your [00:05:10] family actually because I don't think [00:05:11] many people do know where are you from I [00:05:13] I think I read online I don't know if [00:05:15] it's true that you're also a mother um [00:05:17] how many siblings do you have who [00:05:19] actually is Lily gtis in her own words I [00:05:22] would say I'm just like a just kind of a [00:05:25] normal Southern you know girl went to [00:05:27] college like everybody else was raised I [00:05:30] went I was homeschooled for part of my [00:05:32] uh high school years and then I finished [00:05:34] off at a private school uh had a big [00:05:37] family Four Brothers had a lot of fun [00:05:40] had horses and stuff so definitely like [00:05:42] a country girl to a certain extent um [00:05:45] I'm from North Carolina originally we've [00:05:47] moved around a whole lot though um and [00:05:49] then I've kind of like landed back here [00:05:52] uh love the beach so I have to be you [00:05:54] know near there and I want to raise my [00:05:55] son like on the beach as well and yeah I [00:05:57] have a I have a two-year-old as well oh [00:05:59] amazing okay so you have a 2-year-old [00:06:01] you're a mom and I guess that has to [00:06:03] shape a lot of your opinions I know it [00:06:05] definitely changed me it's a sismic [00:06:07] shift in your life when you become a [00:06:09] parent and one of the things that [00:06:11] concerns me is sort of the presentation [00:06:14] of women that we do see online how do [00:06:17] you think that you are going to deal [00:06:19] with that with your [00:06:20] daughter well it's it's just one of [00:06:22] those things you know nobody's perfect [00:06:24] like bottom line and and there's a lot [00:06:26] of people who want to set themselves up [00:06:27] to be perfect and then there's a lot of [00:06:29] people that put the worst foot forward [00:06:30] like I usually do because I feel like [00:06:32] it's better to not put yourself on a [00:06:33] pedestal so you can't get knocked down [00:06:36] um but yeah there's a lot of like again [00:06:38] online is not real life we all know this [00:06:41] you know they can you can edit things to [00:06:43] make things sound bad or good or [00:06:45] whatever so I think I think there's a [00:06:47] lot of you know people are struggling in [00:06:49] this country just normal everyday [00:06:50] working people are struggling and [00:06:52] they're not the worst people they're not [00:06:54] the only fans girls that's not all the [00:06:56] girls in the world there's a lot of like [00:06:58] I have a bunch of friends who are good [00:07:00] girls who went through college they [00:07:01] tried to do the best they could you know [00:07:03] they're trying to find good husbands and [00:07:05] they're trying to raise kids so my whole [00:07:08] point was you know just give a little [00:07:09] Grace because we're not all terrible [00:07:11] it's not everything you see on these you [00:07:13] know like I said at 3:00 a.m. outside of [00:07:15] a Night Club you're not exactly getting [00:07:16] the best of the best so yeah there's [00:07:19] there's a lot of good people out there [00:07:20] and I think they just they're not out [00:07:22] there putting themselves online so you [00:07:24] don't know it so it's it's basically [00:07:26] don't be black killed it's not as bad as [00:07:27] it actually is all right guys jumping in [00:07:29] here to let you in on a little Wireless [00:07:31] hack that can cut your cell phone bill [00:07:33] in half every single month ryzen at& TN [00:07:36] T-Mobile want you to believe that you [00:07:37] need unlimited data so that you can be [00:07:39] overcharged but here's the fact most of [00:07:41] you are buying way more data than you [00:07:42] actually will ever need pure talk my [00:07:44] cell phone company only charges you for [00:07:46] the data that you actually want listen [00:07:48] to this for just $25 a month you can 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[00:08:31] video I have to Che myself because it [00:08:33] can you can become sort of terminally [00:08:35] online and the conversations you're [00:08:38] having it's like wait a second I have [00:08:39] two sisters my sisters are married to [00:08:41] totally regular people I mean these [00:08:43] girls that I'm seeing an only fans [00:08:44] obviously this is not who the regular [00:08:46] person is and I thought that was [00:08:47] actually a really strong point that you [00:08:49] delivered unfortunately you're on the [00:08:50] internet there's going to be absolutely [00:08:51] no Grace afforded to you they're going [00:08:53] to tear apart every piece of your life I [00:08:55] already see people saying she's a single [00:08:57] mom you know what does she know about [00:08:59] conservatism so I wanted to give you a [00:09:00] platform first and foremost to talk [00:09:02] about that in a way that you shouldn't [00:09:04] feel attacked I think it's completely [00:09:06] absurd this idea that they want people [00:09:08] held up on a pedestal and they want to [00:09:09] believe that their lives are perfect [00:09:11] life is complicated I have transformed [00:09:13] so much even from my positions being a [00:09:16] conservative in the public sphere the [00:09:17] things that I have said have changed and [00:09:18] people have a right to transform so how [00:09:21] I guess how did you become a single mom [00:09:23] were you married in the past or are you [00:09:25] uh married now what is your circumstance [00:09:27] right well it was just one of those [00:09:29] things you know it's a a bad relation [00:09:31] gone a relationship gone a unfortunately [00:09:34] um we're not together so I am you know [00:09:36] single I was I've never been married but [00:09:38] it's just one of those things you know [00:09:39] people make mistakes and you want you [00:09:42] start out in life like wanting to I want [00:09:44] to wait till marriage and whatever and [00:09:45] then life happens and it's just doesn't [00:09:47] work out you know but I I think the the [00:09:50] like I don't appeal to people who really [00:09:52] have to all their stuff together but I [00:09:55] do appeal to Middle America who you know [00:09:57] they aren't perfect they have made [00:09:59] mistakes and they're trying to do the [00:10:01] best they can because bottom line I mean [00:10:03] even as a Christian it's like we're not [00:10:05] perfect we're never going to be perfect [00:10:06] that's why God had to come down and dial [00:10:08] across for us you know ultimately so I [00:10:10] think I can work be as a good funnel for [00:10:13] just your normal Middle America to get [00:10:15] into conservatism because I'm an easier [00:10:18] person to relate with just because I'm [00:10:20] not perfect you know and I have had [00:10:22] stuff go wrong and I can even be a voice [00:10:24] for women who you know they do get [00:10:25] pregnant and don't choose abortion like [00:10:27] I had lots of people telling me oh my [00:10:29] gosh just just get in Bor don't tell [00:10:31] anybody else you know and that's an easy [00:10:34] way out but I think I think I'm I'm [00:10:36] happy that the way things have turned [00:10:38] out the way they are it's not perfect [00:10:39] obviously but I think I can appeal to a [00:10:41] lot more people that way just because [00:10:43] you know it's it's easy to relate to [00:10:45] someone who hasn't had everything go [00:10:47] light so if I can help bring Middle [00:10:49] America to to conservative America I [00:10:52] think that would be you know doing [00:10:54] something good for the country yeah I do [00:10:56] think that there is that conflict you [00:10:57] know you conservatives were we're [00:10:59] pro-life but I started my life [00:11:01] pro-choice just to be clear and I [00:11:02] changed my mind later on and I knew [00:11:04] girls that were getting abortions and [00:11:05] it's funny because then you see someone [00:11:07] who gets a platform accidentally like [00:11:09] you quite accidentally got a platform [00:11:11] this obviously went viral and then they [00:11:13] conservatives will instantly hold your [00:11:15] feet to the fire and be like this is not [00:11:17] a conservative she has a child out of [00:11:18] wock and it's like wait a second but we [00:11:20] also believe that you should choose life [00:11:23] and we know that life is not perfect and [00:11:24] there is this pressure that they [00:11:26] instantly want you want to believe that [00:11:28] you can be become overnight if you have [00:11:30] a platform and it's better to just be [00:11:31] authentic about who you are and to give [00:11:33] yourself the grace to transform over the [00:11:35] years and I I find that to be [00:11:37] problematic and I've tried to [00:11:38] communicate that even to my own [00:11:39] audiences because I try to explain to [00:11:41] people I would love if I'll give a [00:11:43] perfect example I think Ali stuck is [00:11:45] like a perfect person like her life she [00:11:47] com from like a two parent household I [00:11:48] listen to her podcast she's got she's [00:11:50] talking about the Bible she's married [00:11:51] she's got a husband that loves her but [00:11:53] the reality is I would have never become [00:11:55] a conservative if the first person I [00:11:56] listen to was Ali sucky and so I've [00:11:58] tried to communicate to people as [00:12:00] someone who comes from a broken family [00:12:03] my parents divorce that it's easier for [00:12:05] men to listen to Andrew Tate right as a [00:12:07] starting point because he's just going [00:12:08] to be more relatable he's just going to [00:12:10] be more relatable and he might he's [00:12:12] obviously not talking about family and [00:12:13] he's not talking about you know God and [00:12:15] things like that but he is talking about [00:12:17] you know Financial positions whatever it [00:12:19] is you have to be able to to think of it [00:12:23] as almost a staircase you know what I [00:12:26] mean and I just am not sure that [00:12:29] conservatives are understanding that you [00:12:31] definitely did though highlight that [00:12:34] there is a neocon movement that's what [00:12:35] people are terming it and you had some [00:12:38] Choice words do you want to speak about [00:12:40] that because I think a lot of [00:12:40] conservatives recognize that there is [00:12:43] something that is in our movement that [00:12:46] is operating as though it's conservative [00:12:47] but it actually isn't conservative at [00:12:49] all right right well that's the business [00:12:51] side of it you know and the problem with [00:12:53] Fame and power and money and stuff is it [00:12:56] does corrupt people you know lots of [00:12:58] people come in here well and attention [00:12:59] or whatever and then you get these [00:13:01] offers you get you get in with a certain [00:13:03] group of people and you you want to stay [00:13:05] in their good graces and that that makes [00:13:06] sense like we are herd animals kind of [00:13:08] we do want to have a team we do want to [00:13:10] be in the good graces of that team but [00:13:12] again that comes with the downside if [00:13:14] there's a lot of corruption you know and [00:13:16] I see with a lot like a lot of [00:13:18] mainstream conservatives usually if [00:13:19] you're not very censored that should set [00:13:22] off some red flags because it's like why [00:13:24] is that the case you know and and not to [00:13:27] rag on any particular one because I hate [00:13:29] to punch right you know CU we need more [00:13:31] unity in the right wing but at the same [00:13:33] time you have to call out when you do [00:13:35] see that something is wrong like and [00:13:37] people are not necessarily fighting for [00:13:39] America but it's more just like either a [00:13:41] little Hollywood thing going on and it's [00:13:43] for you know the money or the CL or if [00:13:46] they're promoting some sort of messaging [00:13:48] because they've been paid by some you [00:13:50] know who knows a foreign entity or for [00:13:52] whatever reason but there's a just cuz [00:13:55] the normal people don't see that and I [00:13:57] didn't realize that that's how it was [00:13:58] until I kind of got thrown into this [00:14:00] world I was like wow this is there's a [00:14:02] lot of like you know fake stuff going on [00:14:05] it's not what it seems like on the [00:14:06] outside and when you look in you're like [00:14:09] wow there's you know we need genuine [00:14:11] people we need more independent people [00:14:13] we need less clubs and groups we need [00:14:16] more independent people actually out [00:14:17] there fighting for America because [00:14:20] bottom line we're the the Middle America [00:14:22] is the one getting screwed over by all [00:14:23] this you know lots of people are making [00:14:25] lots of money but they're not really [00:14:27] helping you know it's just good talking [00:14:29] points and they're not really addressing [00:14:31] the actual issues right and they're also [00:14:33] I think they get to a point where they [00:14:35] have made so much money that they just [00:14:37] don't want to threaten that security and [00:14:39] so even if they see things that are [00:14:40] happening that are wrong they will allow [00:14:42] it to happen and they'll sit by either [00:14:43] idly or they're participating in it [00:14:45] because there's an opportunity for them [00:14:46] to make more money um if if if they get [00:14:48] involved in that thing and so I always [00:14:50] encourage my audience make sure you're [00:14:51] constantly auditing you know even me I'm [00:14:53] like you know I've been around for eight [00:14:54] years i' I've changed over those years [00:14:56] I've become a mother you make sure does [00:14:58] she still believe believe in the things [00:14:59] that we believe and we saw that this [00:15:00] week I don't know if you had followed [00:15:02] this but Michaela Peterson who I [00:15:04] actually had never followed Dr [00:15:05] Peterson's daughter um but she comes out [00:15:08] with a very wild statement about we need [00:15:10] censorship of the word filth now she has [00:15:12] since slightly walked it back but still [00:15:15] says that well if you say filth about an [00:15:17] entire group of people I I don't and I [00:15:18] still disagree with her but that's a [00:15:20] problem and people were like no no no no [00:15:22] no don't go after like the Peterson [00:15:24] family because they've contributed such [00:15:25] goodness it's like that doesn't go away [00:15:28] like I I'm very happy that there was [00:15:30] goodness contributed but if now the [00:15:33] talking point is going to be that we [00:15:35] need censorship because there's a topic [00:15:36] that I feel sensitive about we have to [00:15:38] audit that because we need to be [00:15:40] conservatives always not just when our [00:15:42] friends become leftists we just stay [00:15:44] quiet about it you know and I can [00:15:46] understand it because I've even kind of [00:15:48] experienced that a little bit myself [00:15:49] just you know you start to get like some [00:15:52] people that are on your team you're like [00:15:53] oh this is kind of nice and I'm not [00:15:55] alone or whatever and then you kind of [00:15:57] feel yourself being like oh I can't [00:15:58] really and do I really want to touch on [00:16:00] that topic because that might piss them [00:16:01] off and then you got to check yourself [00:16:02] be like oh man I'm falling into to that [00:16:05] kind of rut and yeah I totally [00:16:07] understand that and like I said earlier [00:16:09] you know well-intentioned people they [00:16:11] can start off great and then it ends up [00:16:14] you know they fall into that rut and you [00:16:15] have to call that out and you can't be [00:16:17] so worried about like trying to you know [00:16:19] capitulate and please them and not piss [00:16:21] anybody off that you don't speak the [00:16:22] truth because you know we're supposed to [00:16:24] be the fire Brands out here because [00:16:26] Middle America is sitting back hoping [00:16:27] we're doing the Fighting For for them [00:16:29] but if there's no fighting going along [00:16:31] then it's we've already lost who are [00:16:33] some of the voices that you trust in [00:16:35] media if there are any by the way I [00:16:37] would say [00:16:39] um I I don't really [00:16:41] know that I actually trust because I [00:16:44] don't know any people personally I know [00:16:47] um that I've I've listened to like I've [00:16:49] listened to the Gavin McKinnis show I [00:16:51] like him a lot I like you obviously and [00:16:54] um you know I respect people that I see [00:16:57] can put aside the money and they can [00:16:59] lose things and they can get fired and [00:17:01] they don't care to lose that comfortable [00:17:03] position because that's to me that's how [00:17:05] I I I gauge if somebody's you know legit [00:17:08] or not so yeah it's very very few people [00:17:10] out there but yeah I have definitely met [00:17:12] some that I feel like they've been [00:17:14] consistent and even if they've changed a [00:17:16] little bit they don't care if they [00:17:18] alienate people because they have their [00:17:20] truth or whatever and they're going to [00:17:21] stick to that no matter what yeah I [00:17:24] think that takes a lot of courage and [00:17:25] it's one of the reasons why I love tuer [00:17:26] Carlson you know that he's just been [00:17:27] like don't care goodbye like saying [00:17:29] whatever I think and you know willing to [00:17:31] have on Alex Jones and Andrew tape [00:17:33] because I think what a lot of times the [00:17:34] media does is they create create this [00:17:37] club and this goes back to what you were [00:17:39] saying these are dweebs like why are we [00:17:40] listening to them but they're basically [00:17:41] like if you want to see at the table of [00:17:43] dweebs then you can't talk to Andrew [00:17:46] Tate you know it's like wait a second I [00:17:48] would way rather speak to someone like [00:17:49] Andrew tapate than talk to you like so I [00:17:52] always have to remind myself of that [00:17:53] actually not really it comes quite [00:17:54] naturally to me because I'm just like [00:17:56] there is nothing about you that I like I [00:17:57] mean I find you to be they they tweet [00:17:59] like weasel you know what I mean let me [00:18:01] my feelings and I'm just not into it at [00:18:03] all and so I did very much like your [00:18:06] video when you were talking about that [00:18:07] like why are we allowing these losers to [00:18:10] dictate what we think and what we feel [00:18:13] and what we say with their essential [00:18:15] it's propaganda I mean they just gang up [00:18:17] and they're they all text each other I [00:18:19] know this for a fact and they're in a [00:18:20] group chat and they're like let's go [00:18:21] after this person and take this clip out [00:18:23] of context and say she's supporting this [00:18:25] and in the past I think the American [00:18:27] people followed that and I think now [00:18:29] they're kind of going wait a second [00:18:31] you're liars and worse than that you're [00:18:34] losers I know I said it in a very like [00:18:36] craft way um and but there is a general [00:18:40] Point behind everything I said like the [00:18:41] the loser thing the everybody was coming [00:18:44] for me for that getting late in high [00:18:46] school and it's not I'm not promoting [00:18:47] sleeping around okay but I will say it's [00:18:50] a general principle that there are [00:18:51] certain people that don't get what they [00:18:53] see the top people getting and they do [00:18:55] get a chip on their shoulder and that [00:18:57] chip on their shoulder does carry into [00:18:58] adulthood like you do see that you know [00:19:00] that the way that you were raised or or [00:19:03] whatever how you were developed when you [00:19:04] were younger it does carry over into [00:19:06] adult life and you do notice patterns [00:19:09] and you do start to see that you're like [00:19:10] wow the weird people in in high school [00:19:13] this isn't to say that they were you [00:19:14] know dumb they're very usually very [00:19:16] smart people and now they are the Bill [00:19:18] Gates now they are the Zuckerberg they [00:19:20] the people telling us what to say and [00:19:22] what to think and that's a problem are [00:19:24] you overwhelmed with back taxes or [00:19:26] struggling with unfiled returns with 20 [00:19:28] ,000 new hires the IRS has stepped up [00:19:30] enforcement since the end of Co relief [00:19:32] programs issuing millions of pay up [00:19:34] notices in 2024 if you're worried about 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Network USA for personalized support [00:20:21] with your tax issues handling IRS [00:20:24] matters without professional help is [00:20:25] risky protect your financial security by [00:20:27] seeking guidance from tax Network USA [00:20:29] their experts provide strategic advice [00:20:31] on reducing or eliminating your tax debt [00:20:33] to schedule a complimentary consultation [00:20:35] call 1 [00:20:36] 80045 6000 or visit TN [00:20:42] usa.com Candace don't let the irs's [00:20:45] aggressive tactics control your life [00:20:47] Empower yourself with tax Network USA [00:20:49] support and take charge of your [00:20:50] financial future visit TN [00:20:53] usa.com Candace I I act absolutely agree [00:20:57] with you and I was just having this [00:20:58] discussion offline because I there are [00:21:00] kind of competing ideas of what women [00:21:02] should be doing and I was explaining to [00:21:04] someone why I wanted to have you on the [00:21:05] show because I actually always think [00:21:08] about that when I'm meeting people I the [00:21:10] first question I ask myself is who are [00:21:11] they in high school because for some [00:21:13] reason High School leaves an indelible [00:21:15] mark on people and I find that the [00:21:16] people who were complete losers in high [00:21:18] school who find Fame uh later on they [00:21:22] hold on to it in a way that's like it [00:21:24] means everything to them so they will do [00:21:26] anything to be like allowed to be in [00:21:28] cool Club they will like say anything to [00:21:30] be in the cool club and that's actually [00:21:31] not good right because it doesn't give [00:21:33] you you don't have real confidence and [00:21:35] and I'm not talking about people like [00:21:36] I'm not talking about like smart kids [00:21:38] I'm talking about people that just were [00:21:40] severely bullied I I I tend to see that [00:21:42] in politics that then when they get a [00:21:43] little bit of power they kind of go a [00:21:45] little bit crazy um and they're [00:21:47] constantly dictating to people what they [00:21:49] should or should not be doing and it's [00:21:50] just unhelpful and I think going into [00:21:53] any career or any any space that you're [00:21:55] going to be in particularly the public [00:21:56] one where you're getting a lot of [00:21:57] feedback you have to have fundamental [00:22:00] confidence in who you are right and not [00:22:02] be able to be easily swayed because [00:22:05] that's what it is it's kind of like the [00:22:06] recreation of high school where it's [00:22:08] like who's going to be your click just [00:22:09] like you said if you want to sit over [00:22:11] here you want to do this this is what we [00:22:13] need you to say we need to say ped this [00:22:14] one line and it's people that really [00:22:17] have confidence that will stand up to it [00:22:19] and say no actually I'm I'm just not [00:22:21] going to do that right and that's why I [00:22:24] think it's so important how like you [00:22:25] raise your kids you know make sure put [00:22:27] them in sports you know does give them [00:22:29] confidence it gives them stamina they [00:22:31] work hard you know they're in with a [00:22:33] higher better group of people that you [00:22:34] know they care about they care about [00:22:36] improving themselves it's not about oh [00:22:39] poor pitiful me you know it's because [00:22:41] that's where that victim culture has all [00:22:42] come from it's it does start when you're [00:22:45] young you know and you learn and you're [00:22:46] like oh if I can you know complain to [00:22:48] teacher or whatever you know I get some [00:22:50] extra browning points and so that's [00:22:52] where the victim culture starts versus [00:22:54] the people who who didn't play the [00:22:56] victim and they were like if they lost a [00:22:57] race it was on because they didn't train [00:22:59] or whatever so yeah I think I think [00:23:01] definitely if we can try to get this [00:23:03] next Generation raised right you know [00:23:05] they're raised outside they're not on [00:23:06] the phones they're not being [00:23:07] indoctrinated as much and they are [00:23:09] actually out doing competitive Sports [00:23:11] and and just interacting with themselves [00:23:13] in a good way and maybe being punished [00:23:15] for being a crybaby like like I was [00:23:18] right that's a good thing you have four [00:23:20] brothers so there's no question you you [00:23:22] were just being pummeled the whole time [00:23:23] I [00:23:24] mean I think it does help to grow up [00:23:26] with siblings yeah exactly it's but it [00:23:29] is good this is why I believe you have [00:23:30] to grow up with siblings because like [00:23:32] when people are pointing us up on the [00:23:34] internet I'm like me and my sister [00:23:35] should just beat the crap out of each [00:23:36] other all the time like you know so I'm [00:23:37] just I've got a bit of a thicker skin I [00:23:39] was constantly calling my sister names I [00:23:41] was telling her she was fat she was [00:23:43] worthless I mean like the things that we [00:23:44] say to each other as siblings and me and [00:23:46] my sisters are a year and a half apart [00:23:48] it it does it is character building you [00:23:50] know you like surviving even amongst [00:23:52] siblings and then surviving in high [00:23:54] school and deciding who you are it helps [00:23:56] and I think part of it is that we do [00:23:58] have this cotle culture in America and [00:24:00] when cotle culture then becomes the [00:24:02] media it's a huge problem right well and [00:24:05] unfortunately with situations like like [00:24:07] politics and there's so many positions [00:24:10] that attract a certain type of people [00:24:12] that want to have that kind of power [00:24:13] over defenses people you see it with [00:24:15] school teachers a lot of times yeah you [00:24:17] have good school teachers but you have a [00:24:19] lot of people that are attracted to [00:24:20] those positions because it's a kind of a [00:24:23] power box you know they they have a lot [00:24:24] of power over kids that have to listen [00:24:26] to them same with politics so that's why [00:24:28] I think we see so many of those kinds of [00:24:30] people in those positions right [00:24:33] absolutely so I have to ask Lily where [00:24:35] to next what are the offers you're [00:24:37] getting what's what's happening in your [00:24:39] inbox I know you're probably getting [00:24:40] everything from people saying I want to [00:24:43] marry you to people accusing you of [00:24:45] being a part of some conspiracy that is [00:24:47] the beauty of Internet Fame so what is [00:24:49] actually next for you um I'm not sure [00:24:52] like right now I never this like I said [00:24:54] this wasn't a planned thing like if it [00:24:56] had been a planned thing I would have [00:24:57] like a goal but right now I'm just kind [00:24:59] of just doing the same thing I was I'm [00:25:01] still just putting out the videos and [00:25:03] talking and if it relate if people [00:25:04] relate to it that's awesome and if not [00:25:07] I'll try to find something else but [00:25:08] right now you know I'm just just trying [00:25:10] to figure out where do I go from here [00:25:12] you know I have um I think I'm going to [00:25:15] be doing a show with the uh CS and.tv so [00:25:18] that's Gavin mck Kinesis Network so [00:25:20] that'll be fun I think that's a great [00:25:21] crowd of people so that's something you [00:25:23] know in the works but yeah we're just [00:25:25] we're just winging it at this point to [00:25:26] be honest Gavin was one of the First [00:25:28] shows that I did he's great he he's such [00:25:30] a kind person always has been one she'll [00:25:31] have fun there you should definitely [00:25:33] also think about getting involved with [00:25:34] some pro-life Charities you know cuz [00:25:36] like I said these are the stories people [00:25:37] need to hear and it's something that we [00:25:39] should be welcoming and by the way what [00:25:41] is your what is your normal job what is [00:25:42] your normal so to speak job right well I [00:25:45] was a marketing position I just like I [00:25:47] just graduated college and I got the [00:25:49] entry level like marketing position and [00:25:51] then I lost it so very nice right now [00:25:54] yeah right now I'm currently unemployed [00:25:56] okay well you know what the God's got a [00:25:58] plan for you so don't worry about it you [00:25:59] know when things happen sometimes when [00:26:02] you get fired it's okay it's a good [00:26:04] thing it can be a good thing Lily thank [00:26:07] you so much for joining us and I hope [00:26:08] that in the future I definitely want to [00:26:10] have you down we're still figuring [00:26:11] things out here at the studio but it [00:26:12] would be great to have just like a panel [00:26:14] of women talking about women like female [00:26:16] issues and different perspectives [00:26:17] because I think people do need to hear [00:26:19] um more real world perspectives as you [00:26:21] say and not just believing that the [00:26:23] Internet is real life so thank you so [00:26:25] much for joining us thank you so much I [00:26:27] appreciate it all right guys I hope you [00:26:29] enjoyed that discussion I hope it's [00:26:30] provided more clarity as to who Lily [00:26:32] gtis is so we can retire the moniker the [00:26:34] n-word girl it's all we have please [00:26:37] please head to Club candice.com support [00:26:39] us that way or go to locals.com become a [00:26:42] one-time donor a monthly donor keep the [00:26:44] show and the conversation free and [00:26:46] unrestricted [00:26:48] [Music]