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[00:00:03] [Music] [00:00:08] so [00:00:14] [Music] [00:00:30] [Music] [00:00:48] hey [00:01:38] we wanna go [00:02:21] [Music] [00:02:23] we're driving [00:02:25] cars tonight [00:02:37] we wanna go [00:03:07] [Music] [00:03:15] [Music] [00:03:36] funny thing about love is [00:03:39] you never really know when it's coming [00:03:41] but you better believe you'll know when [00:03:43] it's there [00:03:44] true story [00:03:47] [Music] [00:03:56] you know i keep it cool [00:04:10] it caused my heart [00:04:19] [Music] [00:04:26] go ahead [00:04:39] and you can be sure [00:05:00] [Music] [00:05:07] baby [00:05:08] next [00:05:29] so you better be sure [00:05:41] [Music] [00:06:04] and you can [00:06:16] one day [00:06:33] so you better be sure [00:06:49] oh [00:07:13] going home [00:07:37] foreign [00:08:49] go home [00:09:17] [Music] [00:09:31] [Music] [00:09:42] [Music] [00:09:49] you [00:09:53] [Music] [00:10:20] [Music] [00:10:36] [Music] [00:10:58] [Music] [00:11:09] [Music] [00:11:34] [Music] [00:11:51] [Music] [00:11:59] [Music] [00:12:04] what else i have to do [00:12:11] [Music] [00:12:16] i want you [00:12:17] to pull me closer [00:12:21] [Music] [00:12:31] pull me closer [00:12:46] [Music] [00:12:50] is [00:13:09] [Music] [00:13:16] [Music] [00:13:21] what else i have to do [00:13:28] [Music] [00:13:35] pull me closer [00:13:48] pull me closer [00:14:03] [Music] [00:14:10] is [00:14:18] [Music] [00:14:26] [Music] [00:15:09] nobody give me six feet this [00:15:18] what's up ywls paige roo here this is [00:15:20] one of the most epic events in the [00:15:22] conservative movement obviously but the [00:15:24] party doesn't stop here you yes you can [00:15:27] get involved in tpusa action happening [00:15:29] around the country throughout the year [00:15:32] learn more start a chapter and maybe [00:15:34] even meet more two-way baddies by [00:15:36] texting paige to 7-1776 [00:15:40] miss your shots [00:16:01] struggling with my anxiety are you [00:16:03] feeling the insanity [00:16:05] anger inside of me [00:16:21] somebody better say a prayer for me [00:16:25] tonight [00:16:45] wow [00:17:00] we won't be running your town [00:17:09] [Music] [00:17:17] to [00:17:34] [Music] [00:17:38] so [00:18:34] do [00:20:40] good morning turning point usa we are [00:20:43] back for day two of the young women's [00:20:45] leadership summit right here at the [00:20:47] gaylord texan in dallas texas oh my gosh [00:20:50] is the excitement palpable in this room [00:20:53] and with everyone waiting for our first [00:20:55] speaker to kick off the day we are in [00:20:57] our exhibit hall right now which is full [00:20:59] to the brim of conservative really truly [00:21:02] pro-women companies here to support [00:21:04] actual femininity we've got our turning [00:21:06] point usa field program recruiting the [00:21:09] next generation of our on-campus [00:21:11] activists for our high school and [00:21:13] college chapters we have pro-life [00:21:15] organizations makeup companies run gen z [00:21:18] encouraging more generation z students [00:21:20] to run for office in their hometown all [00:21:22] across america we've even got period [00:21:25] companies that pride themselves on being [00:21:27] the only pro women companies to give you [00:21:31] tampons yep we've got it all right here [00:21:33] at the young women's leadership summit [00:21:36] in dallas texas last night was the [00:21:38] perfect kickoff to celebrate our [00:21:40] womanhood and femininity we heard from [00:21:42] alex clark charlie kirk lara trump and [00:21:45] dana lesh all about what it means to be [00:21:47] a strong independent woman not waiting [00:21:50] on permission from the government to see [00:21:52] succeed not waiting for someone else to [00:21:54] protect you if you happen to find [00:21:55] yourself in a position of harm and [00:21:57] certainly not asking for a man's [00:21:59] permission to let you succeed in this [00:22:02] world which ironically is exactly what [00:22:04] the left has been doing these days to [00:22:06] squash true womanhood and femininity we [00:22:08] are getting ready to kick everything off [00:22:10] for a very full day jam-packed with [00:22:13] speakers and we even added a new speaker [00:22:15] for the very end of the day matt walsh [00:22:17] who's going to be talking about his new [00:22:19] documentary on what is a woman very [00:22:22] important question for our time in the [00:22:24] 2020s let's head in there and check out [00:22:26] everything that we can expect coming up [00:22:29] today i personally am very excited for [00:22:31] some very secret special surprises that [00:22:34] i can't tell you anything about but i [00:22:35] will be participating in in just a few [00:22:37] hours so i know you're going to want to [00:22:39] watch the entire stream from start to [00:22:42] end we've got great speakers fantastic [00:22:44] breakout sessions and as i mentioned a [00:22:47] very secret special surprise from one of [00:22:49] our contributors coming soon dun dun dun [00:22:52] all right we're headed in here can't [00:22:54] wait to share everything with you for [00:22:56] ywls day two 2022 stick around don't go [00:23:01] anywhere our speakers start very soon [00:23:06] [Music] [00:23:22] we're driving [00:23:24] cars tonight [00:23:27] [Music] [00:23:36] we wanna go [00:23:56] [Music] [00:23:59] charlie kirk here founder of tourney [00:24:01] point usa right now the world elites are [00:24:03] in switzerland planning the great reset [00:24:05] to try to crush the american way of life [00:24:07] and that's why turning point usa is [00:24:09] fighting back in the grassroots of [00:24:11] america but to win this battle we need [00:24:13] you to know what is going on and to rise [00:24:16] up that's why i'm giving away my new [00:24:18] book for a gift of any amount call the [00:24:19] number on your screen to get your copy [00:24:22] of the conservative response for the [00:24:23] great reset you can also go to tpusa.com [00:24:25] to order that is tpusa.com [00:24:28] go there right now [00:24:33] see [00:24:35] the funny thing about love is [00:24:37] you never really know when it's coming [00:24:40] but you better believe you'll know what [00:24:41] it's there [00:24:43] true story [00:24:44] i must [00:24:49] [Music] [00:24:58] i prefer to stay in the cut [00:25:00] don't want no attention on me [00:25:03] when i'm trying to shake the blues above [00:25:05] me but then i saw your face [00:25:24] oh [00:25:31] [Music] [00:25:37] and you can be sure [00:25:44] [Music] [00:25:50] [Music] [00:25:54] don't want to push [00:26:06] baby [00:26:07] next thing i know [00:26:15] you never know when it's coming [00:26:18] but you should know it when it does yeah [00:26:21] one thing i know [00:26:28] so you better be sure [00:26:30] [Music] [00:26:39] oh yeah [00:26:42] [Music] [00:27:03] and you can be sure [00:27:11] me [00:27:26] [Music] [00:27:32] so you better [00:27:41] [Music] [00:27:45] have a big reputation and you can join [00:27:48] the movement by starting a chapter or [00:27:50] donating today take your phone out and [00:27:52] text alex that's me to 7 1776 that's [00:27:57] alex to 7 [00:27:58] 1776. our end game is to save america [00:28:02] are you ready for it [00:28:11] [Music] [00:28:12] going home [00:28:16] [Music] [00:28:30] [Applause] [00:28:35] [Music] [00:29:03] [Music] [00:29:09] [Music] [00:29:15] [Music] [00:29:22] [Music] [00:29:36] [Music] [00:29:44] [Music] [00:29:48] go home [00:29:53] [Music] [00:30:16] is [00:30:37] [Music] [00:31:35] [Music] [00:32:24] thank you [00:32:28] [Music] [00:32:32] so [00:32:49] if i'm being honest loving you the [00:32:51] hardest thing to do so i keep to myself [00:32:55] i feel like i'm falling in and out of [00:32:58] consciousness [00:33:01] now we're starting to talk let's kill [00:33:03] another progress it's really hard to [00:33:06] process [00:33:12] [Music] [00:33:31] [Music] [00:33:36] want oh [00:33:38] to put me closer [00:33:42] [Music] [00:33:47] [Music] [00:33:52] me closer [00:33:55] [Music] [00:34:02] [Music] [00:34:11] is [00:34:22] [Music] [00:34:32] take [00:34:33] [Music] [00:34:41] what else i have to do [00:34:45] [Music] [00:34:57] [Music] [00:35:08] pull me closer [00:35:13] [Music] [00:35:23] take my love don't waste [00:35:27] [Music] [00:35:36] oh [00:35:39] [Music] [00:35:47] closer [00:36:28] we never needed nobody give me six feet [00:36:31] this is my party ain't got no feelings [00:36:33] we harvest take a picture out of [00:36:35] darkness blow up the spot then we [00:36:37] running ready or not here we coming [00:36:46] crazy [00:36:52] [Music] [00:37:04] wow [00:37:06] [Music] [00:37:19] struggling with my sobriety struggling [00:37:22] with my anxiety are you feeling the [00:37:24] insanity [00:37:26] anger inside of me [00:37:28] there is a war in me [00:37:29] and it keeps me blinded by all of the [00:37:32] vanity snakes all around and they [00:37:34] rattling [00:37:46] tonight [00:38:02] because you're a narcissist that's why [00:38:07] [Music] [00:38:09] [Applause] [00:38:13] [Music] [00:38:13] [Applause] [00:38:17] [Music] [00:38:20] good morning [00:38:22] boy we have an amazing day in store for [00:38:24] you today it's going to be incredible [00:38:26] i'll tell you what [00:38:27] i heard some people had some flight [00:38:29] delays [00:38:30] right who had their flight delayed oh my [00:38:32] goodness [00:38:33] canceled but you've made it here anyway [00:38:35] so congratulations we um the events team [00:38:39] i'm going to say this every time i get [00:38:40] on stage they deserve such credit [00:38:42] they've had to deal with just so much in [00:38:44] the last couple days [00:38:46] so [00:38:47] i want to announce our winners of our [00:38:50] sweepstakes [00:38:52] and i know many of you entered and so [00:38:56] let's see who the lucky winners are [00:38:58] okay bridget schneider [00:39:01] congratulations [00:39:04] it's your lucky day [00:39:06] olivia urban [00:39:09] also over okay [00:39:13] congratulations [00:39:15] and by the way if you're like what did [00:39:16] they win they had a chan they have a [00:39:18] chance now to meet candice today which [00:39:20] is awesome [00:39:21] uh briley l s elses did i say that wrong [00:39:25] i'm sure i did [00:39:27] briley yes okay [00:39:30] allie hellman [00:39:32] congratulations stacy buckingham [00:39:36] ryan sadler [00:39:39] megan knowles [00:39:41] it's okay you could scream and celebrate [00:39:43] it's good you see the problem is [00:39:44] everyone else is like i hate that person [00:39:48] they are terrible what did they they [00:39:50] cheated voter fraud or something [00:39:54] right [00:39:56] all right we have did i do buckingham i [00:39:58] did chloe hutzler did i say that right [00:40:02] congratulations [00:40:04] hannah bales [00:40:06] hannah where's hannah okay [00:40:09] congratulations [00:40:12] marie kruger did i say or krueger [00:40:16] did i say that wrong okay [00:40:18] well marie you're going to get an email [00:40:19] anyway so [00:40:20] um [00:40:21] sophia cerroisis [00:40:24] congratulations [00:40:26] and then brittany rust [00:40:28] and lindy muncaster okay [00:40:32] now [00:40:33] we will open up a couple more slots if [00:40:35] some of you arrived late so there's just [00:40:37] a reminder so it's not over yet you [00:40:39] could still win um [00:40:41] just subscribe to the podcast [00:40:43] screenshot it and then email us freedom [00:40:45] charlie kirk.com okay all right i want [00:40:48] to talk to you about a couple things and [00:40:49] we have an amazing agenda in store i [00:40:51] want to remind you [00:40:53] that whatever evening plans you had [00:40:55] tonight [00:40:56] you no longer have those plans [00:40:58] right seven o'clock here matt walsh and [00:41:01] i are going to try to figure out what a [00:41:02] woman is [00:41:03] and so [00:41:04] that's tonight [00:41:07] it's going to be a lot of fun and so [00:41:09] we're going to end general session with [00:41:10] the great candace owens take a little [00:41:12] break [00:41:13] you can go get some food come back and [00:41:14] then a special evening event here it's [00:41:17] here at 7 o'clock [00:41:18] so i want to ask a question how many [00:41:20] people here have been [00:41:23] graded differently by your teacher or a [00:41:26] professor because you're conservative or [00:41:28] christian views [00:41:29] lost friends bullied harassed [00:41:32] basically every hand goes up and if your [00:41:34] hand didn't go up you probably go to [00:41:35] hillsdale college so [00:41:38] or you're homeschooled [00:41:40] my favorite is when the homeschool kids [00:41:43] are like my teacher's the worst [00:41:46] yeah see we we have the we have the [00:41:49] professor watchlist in our teacher [00:41:51] project doesn't work well with [00:41:52] homeschooling not not doing that but [00:41:55] almost every hand went up and [00:41:58] that's a big deal [00:42:00] because if we were at i don't know what [00:42:02] are the left what do they call their [00:42:03] gatherings the [00:42:04] we hate america conference or something [00:42:07] whatever [00:42:08] none of their hands would go up [00:42:10] it's easy to be on the left [00:42:12] it's easy [00:42:13] it's comfortable [00:42:15] you get accepted you get all the jobs [00:42:17] you get [00:42:18] everyone no one questions you right i [00:42:20] mean if you were to post i don't know [00:42:22] whatever what month is it pride month or [00:42:24] whatever that everyone loves you right [00:42:26] okay it's great it's normal right [00:42:28] and yet it's tough to all of a sudden [00:42:30] oppose that and so let's talk about that [00:42:33] for a second [00:42:35] what is it what what is required of you [00:42:38] to push back against that and to be [00:42:40] different well it's courage [00:42:41] and moral courage is the most necessary [00:42:44] yet absent characteristic and boy is the [00:42:46] courage missing right now isn't it [00:42:49] and [00:42:51] so what is courage well courage is doing [00:42:53] the right thing when you don't know how [00:42:55] it's going to work out [00:42:57] and so for some of you coming here was [00:42:59] an act of courage for some of you it [00:43:01] wasn't [00:43:02] now for some of you you kind of knew how [00:43:03] it's going to work out you came with a [00:43:04] bunch of friends for some of you that [00:43:06] traveled halfway around the world now [00:43:07] who traveled the farthest to be here [00:43:09] anyone from alaska [00:43:11] we always that's that's impressive right [00:43:14] now [00:43:15] i asked this is anyone from guam we have [00:43:17] like a guam chapter it's pretty awesome [00:43:19] no no guam [00:43:20] no [00:43:22] sweden [00:43:23] that's a big [00:43:25] stand up that's pretty awesome you're [00:43:27] from sweden she's wearing a trump hat [00:43:29] and she's from sweden it's pretty [00:43:31] awesome [00:43:34] my wife is half swedish so that's just [00:43:36] awesome so you came all the way from [00:43:37] sweden for this that is so cool and [00:43:41] you from england sweden is further east [00:43:43] i'm sorry you lost [00:43:45] stockholm is further away from london [00:43:47] you just but you came from england for [00:43:49] this that is so cool um i just want to [00:43:52] talk to you and figure out you know what [00:43:54] compelled you to come halfway around the [00:43:56] world so for those anyone from the [00:43:57] dallas metro area anyone okay [00:44:01] i'm sorry way more courageous to come [00:44:03] from stockholm [00:44:04] all right you guys gotten like an uber [00:44:06] okay they had to escape stockholm and [00:44:10] london but honestly though [00:44:11] i have to say that [00:44:14] you know i actually envy how sweden [00:44:16] responded to covet in a weird way it's [00:44:17] like they were more pro-freedom than [00:44:19] america was in a very bizarre way [00:44:22] sweden's got its own set of problems but [00:44:24] so look [00:44:26] that's courage to go to a different [00:44:28] country to go to a women's summit to go [00:44:30] figure out [00:44:32] what i want to do with my life do i [00:44:33] really believe these things london also [00:44:35] pretty awesome alaska it's not exactly [00:44:37] nearby [00:44:39] and [00:44:40] so that deserves to be applauded [00:44:42] and needs to be [00:44:43] kind of understood but for all of us [00:44:45] here you're probably asking well charlie [00:44:47] how do i be courageous [00:44:48] well here's the cool thing about courage [00:44:51] is that anybody can be courageous [00:44:54] is that you don't have to be talented to [00:44:56] be courageous [00:44:57] you don't have to have a skill set to be [00:44:59] courageous you just decide to do it [00:45:01] and that's unique isn't it because [00:45:03] there's gonna be some stuff where people [00:45:04] tell you today and you're like i'm not [00:45:06] really big into that and i don't know if [00:45:08] i have the skills to do that but anyone [00:45:10] can be courageous so what's an easy way [00:45:11] to be courageous [00:45:13] challenge someone with power who's [00:45:14] misusing it [00:45:16] that's an easy way to be courageous [00:45:18] we call these people bullies [00:45:20] right [00:45:21] they use power [00:45:22] and they use it against the weak so [00:45:24] america at its best [00:45:26] is when the strong protects the weak or [00:45:29] the strong protects the not as strong [00:45:31] this is one of the reasons why i find it [00:45:33] so reprehensible that we're allowing [00:45:35] women's sports to be destroyed in front [00:45:37] of our eyes i'm not saying women are [00:45:38] weak no that's not what i'm saying what [00:45:40] i'm saying is though that men are [00:45:41] physically stronger than women it's a [00:45:43] fact if you deny that [00:45:45] then [00:45:46] go find another movement to go be part [00:45:48] of like if we can't agree on that bone [00:45:50] density muscle mass testosterone you [00:45:52] name it [00:45:53] and if we're now saying [00:45:54] that [00:45:55] nothing is worthy of preservation or [00:45:57] protection [00:45:59] then that's actually the worst exhibit [00:46:02] of the strong crushing the not as strong [00:46:04] and in fact this is more of a message [00:46:06] for the men than the women where the men [00:46:07] actually standing up against these men [00:46:10] who think they are women that are trying [00:46:11] to compete in these female sports [00:46:13] shouldn't put up with it anymore [00:46:15] and [00:46:18] how many athletes do we have here that [00:46:19] are dealing with the situation right now [00:46:21] raise your hand if you're an athlete [00:46:22] you're dealing with this trans fair [00:46:23] amount okay [00:46:25] yeah i'm sure you will have some q a [00:46:27] you'll be really enthusiastic we'll hear [00:46:29] from you um [00:46:31] i love it though [00:46:33] and [00:46:34] the you bet [00:46:36] but this is a big deal it's not just [00:46:38] about female sports and look i mean we [00:46:40] just you just heard my clip about thomas [00:46:42] the swimmer [00:46:44] uh [00:46:45] i refuse to use the first name by the [00:46:47] way thomas [00:46:48] right [00:46:49] yep [00:46:50] and so people say charlie why don't you [00:46:52] use the male name and all this look it [00:46:54] is a man no doubt absolutely but just [00:46:57] thomas okay that's fine [00:46:59] it's a cheat [00:47:00] it's that simple [00:47:01] that if you if you use your biological [00:47:05] advantage to then go win a national [00:47:06] champion [00:47:08] championship and become a national [00:47:10] champion you're cutting in line [00:47:12] you're abusing your own incumbent [00:47:15] advantage against people that do not [00:47:17] have the same sort of equal footing [00:47:19] and what's so interesting and i'm sure [00:47:21] many of you know these people and i [00:47:23] the kind of hyper feminists right um [00:47:26] there might be some here today by the [00:47:27] way welcome i actually have more in [00:47:29] common with feminists than leftists [00:47:30] nowadays which is bizarre [00:47:32] because i grew up with feminists like [00:47:34] screaming at me all the time right which [00:47:37] is but an interesting thing about [00:47:38] feminism at least the feminism i grew up [00:47:40] with which i disagree with a lot of what [00:47:42] they say is at least they believe that [00:47:45] womanhood or being a woman is a category [00:47:47] worthy of protection [00:47:49] the feminists that i grew up with and [00:47:51] that many of you probably know on [00:47:52] college campuses [00:47:54] is their main complaint is that if we do [00:47:56] not [00:47:58] make you know have boundaries and all [00:48:00] these things men are going to oppress [00:48:02] women right that's kind of a main [00:48:04] complaint of modern feminism which is [00:48:06] hilarious [00:48:07] because they're so silent now that men [00:48:09] are oppressing women in female sports [00:48:11] and in all these other ways like where [00:48:12] are the feminists exactly [00:48:15] awfully quiet [00:48:17] and [00:48:19] you know i i have i've had these [00:48:21] dialogues on college campuses where [00:48:23] people ask i ask them i say you know so [00:48:26] what exactly does it take to be a woman [00:48:28] and they said well you just have to [00:48:30] think that you are a woman [00:48:32] and this happens all the time and [00:48:35] but you think about it [00:48:37] that's really kind of where our culture [00:48:39] has been headed for the last couple [00:48:41] years [00:48:42] just because you feel that you are a [00:48:44] thing that does not mean you are that [00:48:46] thing and so it's either we are going to [00:48:50] be [00:48:51] tied down to these pesky shackles of [00:48:53] reality [00:48:54] and actually understand that there are [00:48:56] some things that we must observe that we [00:48:58] can all agree upon we call that the [00:49:00] truth by the way [00:49:01] or we're going to allow everyone to be [00:49:02] able to define their own truth [00:49:05] and where does that lead you by the way [00:49:07] and so does that mean you could just [00:49:08] decide to be rich well sure like i'm i'm [00:49:11] rich because i i want to be rich and you [00:49:13] think about it that's kind of the [00:49:14] self-esteem movement gone wrong by the [00:49:16] way i hate the self-esteem move and i [00:49:17] think it's a total waste of time now [00:49:19] most women disagree with me when i say [00:49:20] this right men agree what is the [00:49:23] self-esteem movement it's these [00:49:24] ridiculous posters in these schools [00:49:26] where it says you're perfect the way you [00:49:28] are have you seen those well if you're [00:49:30] perfect the way you are then why are you [00:49:31] going to school right like why are you [00:49:33] doing homework how about this you're not [00:49:35] all you could be yet that's a better [00:49:37] poster that's what we should tell you [00:49:39] like you're on the way to becoming a [00:49:41] better person [00:49:42] right instead of your you're totally [00:49:45] perfect the way you are [00:49:46] and i actually think it creates more [00:49:49] issues with young women in particular [00:49:51] where [00:49:52] you know young women i think have a [00:49:54] let's say [00:49:56] too much pressure put on them because [00:49:58] they say i don't really feel as if i'm [00:50:00] perfect the way i am maybe i want to [00:50:02] make some improvements well i want to [00:50:03] become a better person and it becomes an [00:50:05] unnecessary it creates an unnecessary [00:50:07] amount of pressure on people [00:50:09] so i'm going to talk about a couple of [00:50:11] the things as we go on here and i know [00:50:13] the one thing that everyone wants to [00:50:14] talk about is charlie why are men so [00:50:16] terrible nowadays because i can't find a [00:50:18] good boyfriend or fiance is that [00:50:20] basically why you're here right is is [00:50:22] dating advice right no i'm kidding um [00:50:25] you're gonna hear a lot about that from [00:50:26] victor and eileen marks who are amazing [00:50:29] by the way but let me just say this that [00:50:33] from whatever it's worth look men got [00:50:35] plenty of problems we're gonna work on [00:50:36] that um at least i i'm pretty i tell men [00:50:39] to get their act together and stop [00:50:41] acting like grown infants and learn how [00:50:43] to control yourself and all these [00:50:44] different sorts of things see that [00:50:46] always gets applause right [00:50:48] always gets applause [00:50:50] and because men say man i can't i can't [00:50:52] find you know a woman i can't find [00:50:54] anyone to be with and i say you're [00:50:56] really not anything worth being with to [00:50:58] be perfectly honest and i say no and [00:51:01] but [00:51:02] the number one thing i tell men is they [00:51:03] have to learn how to control their [00:51:04] impulses how many agree that men lack [00:51:07] self-control in america today would you [00:51:08] agree with that yeah there you go [00:51:11] it's the number one thing that men have [00:51:13] to become better at but then what is it [00:51:15] that and i generally leave this to my [00:51:17] wife to talk about right [00:51:20] you have to be open to try to find a [00:51:22] partner that might be good at things [00:51:24] that you aren't good at and that can [00:51:26] lead you in circumstances that is a [00:51:28] difficult thing [00:51:29] for modern american feminism to admit [00:51:33] that you might have to get in a [00:51:34] relationship where you might have to be [00:51:35] led [00:51:37] now that should be a high standard where [00:51:38] you're going to allow a man into your [00:51:40] life to lead you right [00:51:42] and you should [00:51:43] you should say like yeah i'm going to [00:51:44] have high high standards [00:51:47] but when it happens [00:51:48] and this is the biblical model right is [00:51:51] that you're going to want a protector [00:51:53] and a leader [00:51:54] right [00:51:56] and deep down [00:51:58] a vast majority of you agree and some of [00:51:59] you are like charlie i'm never going to [00:52:01] when i get married i'm in charge [00:52:04] and that's okay [00:52:05] we'll see if it works [00:52:08] because [00:52:10] god made us differently [00:52:12] and when the and that's a good thing by [00:52:14] the way right [00:52:16] because when [00:52:19] when the metaphorical bullets start [00:52:20] firing [00:52:22] right when things really start to get [00:52:25] tough [00:52:26] god made us different [00:52:28] and [00:52:29] everyone in this room is going to want a [00:52:30] man to go into the fire for you and the [00:52:32] family to go confront evil and to defend [00:52:35] you [00:52:36] and defend what is good true and [00:52:38] beautiful [00:52:40] and [00:52:44] you actually play a role in that [00:52:46] so when you're dating date with the [00:52:48] intent to marry [00:52:49] dating just for dating sake is a total [00:52:51] waste of time it's better not to date [00:52:54] than not date with the intent to marry [00:52:56] okay [00:52:58] and [00:52:59] with that is also rejecting hookup [00:53:01] culture and all that nonsense that has [00:53:04] pervaded college campuses and high [00:53:06] school campuses [00:53:07] but [00:53:08] look men grow up later we know that [00:53:11] neurologically in other ways but [00:53:14] they take their cues more from you than [00:53:16] you might realize [00:53:18] and if you're if you tell you know [00:53:21] let's just say a boy soon to be a man [00:53:24] that wants to be with you say look i'm [00:53:26] looking for a leader that can control [00:53:28] themselves that has courage that is [00:53:30] going to be able to face tough [00:53:31] situations and make appropriate [00:53:33] decisions that like whoa i thought we [00:53:35] were just kind of getting coffee like [00:53:38] no like my time's too valuable just to [00:53:40] kind of get coffee [00:53:42] like [00:53:46] and you'll learn really quick [00:53:48] whether or not [00:53:50] that's a boy or a man [00:53:52] if it's a boy [00:53:54] he'll have you pay for your coffee and [00:53:55] he'll pay for his coffee [00:53:58] if it's a man he'll be like yeah that's [00:53:59] me i'll show you and now it could be [00:54:00] self-conf you know self-cockiness so [00:54:03] just be a little bit guarded but at [00:54:04] least the standard has been set right [00:54:07] and i'll tell you this men need to be [00:54:10] challenged they do [00:54:12] one of the big problems in america right [00:54:14] now is that men are not being challenged [00:54:17] is that men need a call to adventure [00:54:20] so we have a whole generation of grown [00:54:23] infants as i've mentioned [00:54:24] that are [00:54:26] and look i say this and you know what's [00:54:28] amazing is i don't get really hate mail [00:54:30] from young men when i say this a lot of [00:54:32] them agree [00:54:34] and unfortunately so many of them are [00:54:35] addicted to pornography know they're [00:54:37] spending way too much time [00:54:38] in their you know watching screens and [00:54:40] all that a lot of it's not their fault a [00:54:42] lot of it's a broken culture that [00:54:44] quite honestly they don't feel as if [00:54:45] they are welcome into [00:54:48] and they don't feel as if um there's a [00:54:50] place for them and so it's a balance [00:54:53] and [00:54:54] you know for for [00:54:56] you that are kind of like wow i really [00:54:57] want to find my partner i want to build [00:54:59] a life and i've just been striking out [00:55:01] at every single corner it's a balance [00:55:03] between being open-minded and [00:55:05] challenging somebody and also saying [00:55:07] like you're not right for me [00:55:09] and this is not right for me that's [00:55:10] setting a higher standard for yourself [00:55:13] and staying setting a higher standard [00:55:14] for your life [00:55:16] and then for some of you right now [00:55:17] you're probably in some very serious [00:55:19] relationships raise your hand if you're [00:55:21] in a serious relationship that's awesome [00:55:23] so now you're probably getting you're [00:55:25] getting contradictory advice and so now [00:55:27] i'm gonna give you [00:55:29] what i believe is the best advice you're [00:55:32] probably getting contradictory advice [00:55:33] you're probably getting advice it's [00:55:35] great that you have the serious [00:55:36] relationship it's understandable that [00:55:38] you think he's the one go get a go go [00:55:41] pursue your career go make a bunch of [00:55:43] money and you can marry him in six years [00:55:45] from now how many people hear this all [00:55:46] the time right here this all the time [00:55:48] that's a bunch of garbage okay [00:55:51] now if you believe it is the one [00:55:53] why why would you wait to go get a [00:55:55] career at some stupid company [00:55:57] and then [00:55:58] why would you do that exactly [00:56:01] if you believe that person is right for [00:56:02] you [00:56:03] [Applause] [00:56:05] now if you don't if you're unsure that's [00:56:06] a totally different question right [00:56:09] but if you believe that's the person [00:56:10] that god meant for you to be with and to [00:56:12] build a family and to build a union well [00:56:16] then it takes courage to get married [00:56:17] doesn't it it's actually easier to just [00:56:20] delay like yeah we'll get married in the [00:56:22] summer of 2037. [00:56:26] got it all picked out we're going to do [00:56:28] it it's going to be great it's tougher [00:56:29] to be like you know what no i'm going to [00:56:31] take responsibility right now [00:56:33] and we're we're going to make this [00:56:34] happen now i know a lot of you say well [00:56:37] charlie i'm not the one [00:56:38] that makes that decision [00:56:40] right [00:56:41] okay [00:56:43] sure [00:56:44] you tell him what you want and all of a [00:56:46] sudden everything will change now what [00:56:47] do you mean by that is to be like look i [00:56:49] don't think we should be in a [00:56:51] long meandering never-ending boyfriend [00:56:53] girlfriend relationship it's not healthy [00:56:55] by the way it's not [00:56:57] and it's not healthy in a way because [00:56:59] god wants you to be in that union i'm [00:57:01] not saying that there's not exceptions [00:57:03] and you can't be happy and do all these [00:57:04] things but marriage is awesome let me [00:57:06] tell you what everybody here should [00:57:08] desire and want to get married everybody [00:57:11] and [00:57:14] and so it's a balance and the world will [00:57:16] be telling you just graduate college [00:57:18] find your career but guess what you know [00:57:20] the saddest emails i get at turn at my [00:57:22] at our podcast and i get them almost [00:57:24] every single week and so i'm going to [00:57:26] tell you something that's going to scare [00:57:28] you [00:57:28] and i mean to scare you [00:57:31] is 31 32 33 34 year old women [00:57:34] that say [00:57:35] i can't find anybody all my friends got [00:57:38] married early all the good ones are [00:57:40] taken [00:57:41] will i ever get married [00:57:43] and so it's all about what you [00:57:44] prioritize right now i'm not saying you [00:57:45] have to go to college to go get an mrs [00:57:47] degree [00:57:48] right [00:57:49] is that they still know what that is mrs [00:57:51] a misses degree okay no but i'm saying [00:57:54] don't have be open to god's plan for you [00:57:57] is what i'm saying be open for what [00:57:59] might be in store for you because he [00:58:01] might he might shock you and he might [00:58:03] surprise you in a very in a stunning way [00:58:05] and guess what here's the other thing [00:58:07] is that [00:58:08] men are going to be looking [00:58:11] for [00:58:12] somebody [00:58:13] that [00:58:15] that is willing to want to do [00:58:18] the contrarian cultural thing [00:58:20] that is willing to want to [00:58:23] embark on that sort of a journey that is [00:58:26] actually more attractive [00:58:28] to a man [00:58:30] than just being [00:58:32] you know just let's just say [00:58:34] easy to come into contact with is that a [00:58:36] political correct way to say that right [00:58:39] and so it's about standards [00:58:41] and it's about being willing to be in [00:58:43] that partnership in that union as a [00:58:45] proverbs 31 woman would be [00:58:47] and so there's a lot of different [00:58:48] dynamics that come to this and i want [00:58:50] you i want to task all of you to do [00:58:52] something which is [00:58:54] any time and by the way you could do [00:58:56] this with your friends and all that but [00:58:57] when it starts to seep into this anytime [00:59:00] men bashing [00:59:01] starts to go on for five or ten minutes [00:59:03] stop yourself you're like [00:59:05] you know yeah men could be infants and [00:59:07] all that but [00:59:08] we need men [00:59:10] we do because [00:59:11] i know a lot of you are like oh men are [00:59:13] the worst look i agree can be [00:59:15] we could be exceptionally terrible i get [00:59:17] it [00:59:19] but [00:59:20] it's also [00:59:21] it's men that are going to go into [00:59:22] battle to defend what we need [00:59:25] it's men and women do too no doubt [00:59:27] but more men step up and do the [00:59:29] difficult tough pressure filled [00:59:31] situation things that we need and so [00:59:33] reject that kind of men bashing [00:59:36] reject it anytime that it comes up [00:59:38] and and said look what i'm talking about [00:59:40] and articulating is certainly [00:59:42] not in [00:59:44] let's say the predominant view on a lot [00:59:46] of your colleges and in the culture [00:59:49] so how's that working for them [00:59:52] we have the most depressed anxious [00:59:53] suicidal [00:59:54] [Music] [00:59:56] alcohol addicted and drug-addicted [00:59:58] generation in history [01:00:00] i wonder why [01:00:01] it's because we told 14 15 and 16 year [01:00:04] olds you could do whatever you want to [01:00:05] do whenever you want to do it however [01:00:06] you want to do it [01:00:07] and guess what [01:00:09] it's created really miserable people [01:00:11] making pleasure the most important thing [01:00:13] in your life is a bad idea [01:00:15] don't do it [01:00:17] it creates really unhappy people [01:00:20] and so instead [01:00:22] when you believe in the [01:00:25] promise of delayed gratification which [01:00:27] is i'm going to do something hard today [01:00:30] for something potentially beautiful [01:00:32] tomorrow [01:00:34] that's all the sudden where you're going [01:00:36] to be a happier person [01:00:38] and so you look at i'm sure all of you [01:00:39] if i ask how many of you raise of hands [01:00:41] you know at least one or two people [01:00:43] that have committed suicide in the last [01:00:45] year or two everybody's hands is going [01:00:46] to go up right it's a terrible tragedy [01:00:48] it's the most suicidal generation in [01:00:50] history yet it's the generation that [01:00:51] we've told there is no god do what you [01:00:53] want [01:00:54] and you can make any decisions you want [01:00:56] and here's why [01:00:58] it's because [01:01:00] there's a lot of reasons why one of the [01:01:01] main reasons and one of the main drivers [01:01:03] when you're 14 15 16 17 years old is [01:01:06] that if you get addicted to nothing but [01:01:07] doing pleasure all the time and pursuing [01:01:10] pleasure by the time you're 20 you're [01:01:11] going to be looking for that next high [01:01:12] and you're you're going to think the [01:01:13] world is an empty and vacuous place so [01:01:16] what does that mean it means trying if [01:01:19] you prioritize [01:01:21] what feels good immediately over what is [01:01:24] good then pleasure is the most important [01:01:26] thing now mind you this is more of a [01:01:28] problem for young men today but [01:01:30] it's now seeping into a lot of the data [01:01:33] shows it is it's a problem for young [01:01:35] ladies as well [01:01:36] and so it could be as simple as you know [01:01:39] am i going to [01:01:41] you know am i going to continue to do [01:01:42] drugs am i going to continue to do [01:01:44] alcohol am i going to continue to be in [01:01:46] some of these kind of toxic [01:01:47] relationships [01:01:48] and so what's interesting is we've had [01:01:50] the experiment though what creates a [01:01:52] happier generation [01:01:55] doing everything immediately as you want [01:01:56] to do it as the impulses come or [01:01:58] learning to restrain one impulses [01:02:01] you know what we call what maturity [01:02:02] really is is being able to know what you [01:02:04] want and be able to say i'm not gonna do [01:02:07] that [01:02:08] that's what maturity is and it actually [01:02:09] is so lacking in our country because [01:02:11] what is it now you have [01:02:14] weed on demand you have all this [01:02:16] nonsense [01:02:17] and by the way don't do weed people it's [01:02:18] really bad for you okay please it's [01:02:20] terrible it'll it's awful and [01:02:23] and yet we have a generation that is [01:02:24] looking for direction that is looking [01:02:26] for meaning that's looking for purpose [01:02:28] in a in a dramatic way [01:02:31] and yet here's here's the thing that i [01:02:33] just kind of want to reinforce with you [01:02:35] is that [01:02:36] you will be a breath of fresh air [01:02:38] to young men in your community in your [01:02:41] school if all of a sudden you're going [01:02:43] to be known as the person that doesn't [01:02:45] put pleasure first but puts goodness [01:02:47] first [01:02:48] i'm telling you young men will say what [01:02:50] a what you're trying to tell me you [01:02:52] don't want to [01:02:53] drink till 4 30 in the morning and like [01:02:56] no actually [01:02:57] i'm gonna go to bed at nine and if you [01:02:59] want to talk to me you gotta get your [01:03:00] act together have a nice day [01:03:07] i know a lot and that could be tough for [01:03:09] a woman to do by the way right because [01:03:11] you [01:03:12] more agreeable [01:03:13] women tend to be more agreeable now [01:03:15] what's the what's the deeper point of [01:03:17] that though it's knowing what you want [01:03:19] and knowing then that it's not going to [01:03:21] come easily right and setting those [01:03:24] standards and sending setting those [01:03:26] barriers for you a couple more things i [01:03:28] want to talk to you about are countries [01:03:29] in tough shape as we all know how many [01:03:31] people here are homeschooled raise your [01:03:32] hand if you're home wow that is amazing [01:03:35] that is awesome [01:03:37] i believe homeschooling is [01:03:40] is [01:03:40] one of the great [01:03:42] great developments that has happened [01:03:43] postcode but it's funny kind of [01:03:45] post-china virus fauci virus a lot of [01:03:48] people were [01:03:50] all of a sudden parents started to [01:03:51] overhear [01:03:53] their kids on zoom and skype classes [01:03:56] and they realized that these teachers [01:03:57] had absolutely no idea what they were [01:03:59] talking about at all whatsoever and like [01:04:01] maybe i should be homeschooling my [01:04:04] daughter or homeschooling my son and [01:04:06] what we have seen with mom showing up to [01:04:08] school boards across america has been [01:04:10] one of the most inspiring [01:04:13] and [01:04:17] amazing movements that we have seen [01:04:20] in [01:04:21] in recent memory [01:04:22] and that kind of goes to this idea of [01:04:24] education [01:04:25] which is how many of you that are in [01:04:27] college feel that your colleges is kind [01:04:29] of a waste of time and super liberal and [01:04:31] yeah you're really enthusiastic about [01:04:33] that yeah look [01:04:35] education is what you make of it right [01:04:36] education comes from a latin word which [01:04:38] means to lead forth and here's one of [01:04:40] the things i want to make sure you you [01:04:42] leave with especially as future mothers [01:04:45] as future wives and as future guardians [01:04:48] of a country [01:04:49] which is lifelong learners [01:04:52] and you know it's really amazing we look [01:04:53] at our podcast demographics it blows [01:04:56] people away when i tell them i say that [01:04:58] we our most passionate podcast listeners [01:05:02] on our program [01:05:03] are mothers ages 30 to 45. it blows [01:05:07] people away when i say that and [01:05:10] but why is that it's look [01:05:13] and this is this is an important point [01:05:15] as you start to as we start to get into [01:05:17] this kind of moment this is why the left [01:05:19] i think is going to get obliterated is [01:05:21] that it's one thing to get men fired up [01:05:23] about politics it's interesting but when [01:05:25] i talk to men about what's happening [01:05:28] they're like yeah gas prices [01:05:30] like inflation [01:05:32] you know the border but when i talk to [01:05:34] mothers they're like the world health [01:05:36] assembly is going to take over american [01:05:38] sovereignty because of these 13 [01:05:40] amendments and klaus schwab needs to be [01:05:43] i'm like whoa [01:05:44] like [01:05:45] that's pretty cool [01:05:51] and that's not men bashing but we're [01:05:53] very good at one thing gas prices [01:05:57] but what's amazing is that this like [01:06:00] deeper game of sophistication that is [01:06:02] playing out [01:06:03] it's being driven by new moms by young [01:06:06] ladies that have this kind of instinct [01:06:09] that is like there's a game going on [01:06:12] here that is more than just gas prices [01:06:14] and inflation [01:06:16] that there's a game here to get my kids [01:06:18] to hate me [01:06:19] to get my kids to hate the country [01:06:22] there's a game here to crush american [01:06:23] sovereignty and again i'm not trying to [01:06:26] be unfair to men there's plenty of men [01:06:27] that get into the the details of that [01:06:29] but it's [01:06:30] disproportionate amount of the kind of [01:06:33] deeper level more sophisticated level of [01:06:35] activism and so you've got to be [01:06:37] lifelong learners [01:06:38] and what the left has they they don't [01:06:40] understand this at all and they're [01:06:42] totally misreading the room [01:06:44] is that now that we have been exposed to [01:06:47] the lockdowns the vaccine mandates to [01:06:51] all this nonsense now all of a sudden we [01:06:53] are naive no more we kind of understand [01:06:56] that there's something bigger at play [01:06:58] here but they have activated millions of [01:07:01] women to now become like meticulous [01:07:04] researchers [01:07:05] like the same way that moms will [01:07:07] research now about nutrition and like [01:07:09] they're now researching about kind of [01:07:12] the entire agenda in davos switzerland [01:07:14] for the world economic forum [01:07:16] and you think about it it's actually the [01:07:18] same instinct [01:07:20] and for those of you that are mothers or [01:07:22] one day want to become mothers is the [01:07:24] science shows this is something [01:07:25] supernatural comes over you that you [01:07:28] want to protect and you want to guard [01:07:30] and i believe that same sort of instinct [01:07:32] that comes over to you when you have a [01:07:34] child as a mother is precisely what is [01:07:36] happening by the way to the country [01:07:39] is that now moms are saying the same way [01:07:42] i have to defend my child against [01:07:45] potential viruses [01:07:47] people that are bullying them i'm not [01:07:49] going to let my country now be run over [01:07:50] by these people either it's almost the [01:07:54] it's the maternal instinct of an entire [01:07:56] country [01:07:58] and it's and it's it's beautiful and [01:08:00] it's exceptional we can't lose that in [01:08:02] any way shape or form so a couple more [01:08:04] thoughts i want to i want to kind of [01:08:06] touch on here which is i want us to also [01:08:09] kind of have a renewed sense of [01:08:11] gratitude [01:08:12] for the nation in general one of the [01:08:14] things that fires fires me up the most [01:08:16] is the perf is the pervasive and the [01:08:19] widespread ingratitude that has spread [01:08:22] across america i think that in gratitude [01:08:25] or being unthankful is one of the most [01:08:28] undesirable characteristics in a human [01:08:30] being [01:08:31] and [01:08:32] and this is a good rule for life but [01:08:33] there's only a couple things you [01:08:34] remember from the summit okay which is [01:08:37] that ungrateful people are in greats or [01:08:40] people that are not thankful you cannot [01:08:42] be happy [01:08:44] if you are not a thankful person you [01:08:45] cannot be happy [01:08:47] and guess what gratitude takes effort [01:08:50] it takes effort especially in today's [01:08:51] time when [01:08:52] borders wide open double digit inflation [01:08:54] all this nonsense to say you know what [01:08:56] thank you [01:08:57] for all these things but you have to who [01:08:59] are you thinking [01:09:01] and of course i would say you would [01:09:02] think lord almighty for the chance we [01:09:04] can live in the greatest nation ever to [01:09:05] exist in the history of the world [01:09:10] you will be a you will be on a better [01:09:12] path for your life [01:09:13] when you are thankful [01:09:15] and the entire [01:09:16] agenda of the 1619 project [01:09:19] of the radical left-wing curriculum [01:09:21] takeover the agenda that has been [01:09:24] seeping into every single portion of [01:09:26] american education is to get you to no [01:09:29] longer be thankful for the sacrifices [01:09:31] they made for this nation they want to [01:09:34] wipe the memory clean [01:09:36] why do they put masks on children [01:09:39] because they don't want them to have any [01:09:41] memory of freedom [01:09:43] has nothing to do with the virus [01:09:45] they don't want them to know anything [01:09:47] but to how to be controlled [01:09:50] they want five six and seven year olds [01:09:52] to believe the default setting of their [01:09:53] existence [01:09:54] is to be controlled by somebody else to [01:09:58] put a cloth mask on because then they're [01:09:59] gonna be less likely to push back [01:10:01] against tyranny [01:10:02] why is there not revolutions in china [01:10:04] they have no memory of freedom [01:10:06] they don't even know what it means to be [01:10:08] free [01:10:09] and so [01:10:10] [Applause] [01:10:13] this nation [01:10:15] with the greatest political document [01:10:17] ever written united states constitution [01:10:18] a story in a journey that is worthy of [01:10:20] appreciation and study but it's more [01:10:22] than that a nation is not just a [01:10:24] constitution or a bill of rights praise [01:10:26] god we have those things it's also a [01:10:28] people [01:10:29] and one of the things that [01:10:31] i think that the left has severely [01:10:33] missed kind of on that they [01:10:35] underestimated and they didn't quite see [01:10:37] coming [01:10:38] is that in [01:10:39] the [01:10:41] weeks and months that followed january [01:10:43] of 2021 [01:10:45] they thought the american people were [01:10:47] going to give up [01:10:49] and what's interesting is that the [01:10:50] american people something in us [01:10:52] something in our history something in [01:10:54] who we are [01:10:56] is that [01:10:57] we aren't like any other nation it's [01:10:59] actually the opposite happened i want [01:11:01] you to understand the special historical [01:11:03] moment you're living through which is an [01:11:06] unexpected development where the world's [01:11:07] elites they thought they could call moms [01:11:10] and dads domestic terrorists for showing [01:11:11] up at school board meetings [01:11:13] they thought they could call you a bunch [01:11:14] of racists they could call you a bunch [01:11:16] of transphobes and you'd say you know [01:11:18] what you're right [01:11:20] we're done and you would kind of just go [01:11:22] [Music] [01:11:24] not do this anymore and i don't know go [01:11:26] knit or whatever i don't know [01:11:28] the opposite happened [01:11:30] the more they insulted us [01:11:32] the more they came after us the more [01:11:35] they tried to silence us our movement [01:11:37] has only grown in the months and the [01:11:40] years to follow [01:11:43] i want you to understand how unique that [01:11:45] is they're not used to a citizenry you [01:11:49] getting bigger and stronger the more [01:11:50] they insult you [01:11:52] they're not used to a citizenry you [01:11:55] getting tougher the more they throw at [01:11:57] you [01:11:58] where the federal bureau of [01:11:59] investigation in the department of [01:12:01] justice comes out and says that if you [01:12:03] show up to a school board meeting we are [01:12:05] going to classify you potentially as a [01:12:07] domestic terrorist [01:12:08] need to think about that guess what more [01:12:11] mom showed up to school board meetings [01:12:12] after the fbi's letter came out more [01:12:15] parents showed up [01:12:20] so a nation is its people [01:12:22] and if you forget what comes before you [01:12:24] then that nation no longer exists [01:12:27] there's an all-out assault on our [01:12:28] history for that exact purpose this is [01:12:30] why they have to take down our statues [01:12:33] if you do not have icons of people that [01:12:35] did something great before you [01:12:37] then you don't have a nation [01:12:39] i'm sure many of you have to listen to [01:12:41] the pablum in your high school or [01:12:42] college campuses that our founding [01:12:44] fathers were racist how many of you have [01:12:46] to deal with that nonsense almost every [01:12:47] single day again the whole school of [01:12:49] hands never go up so that's just not [01:12:50] fair but [01:12:53] it's the greatest nation ever to exist [01:12:55] in the history of the world you know [01:12:56] what we all have in common as human [01:12:57] beings [01:12:58] we're all born into a world we didn't [01:12:59] create [01:13:01] the founding fathers were born into a [01:13:03] world where slavery was everywhere [01:13:05] by the time they died 9 out of 13 [01:13:07] colonies had abolished slavery [01:13:10] the northwest ordinance had abolished [01:13:11] slavery in the new northwest territories [01:13:13] the first anti-slavery convention was [01:13:15] hosted in philadelphia in 1775 by [01:13:17] benjamin franklin the first state [01:13:19] abolished slavery in 1777 vermont [01:13:22] they came into a world where slavery was [01:13:24] everywhere and by the time they exited [01:13:26] this world slavery was largely dead and [01:13:29] on its way out we should probably learn [01:13:31] something from those people don't you [01:13:32] think there's something special about [01:13:34] that [01:13:35] now [01:13:36] of course the the critics on high they [01:13:38] say well charlie they ain't gonna get [01:13:39] rid of slavery completely and totally [01:13:41] yeah as we know [01:13:43] it's tough to get rid of evil when it's [01:13:45] everywhere right [01:13:46] it takes effort it takes generations you [01:13:48] gotta convince people [01:13:50] and it's amazing i never thought i'd say [01:13:52] this [01:13:52] that in a couple weeks it looks like roe [01:13:54] versus wade might actually be repealing [01:14:10] and isn't it interesting [01:14:13] it's just a women's summit you're [01:14:14] supposed to be against all of that right [01:14:17] isn't it interesting though how quickly [01:14:19] those protests fizzled out [01:14:22] isn't it interesting we were told they [01:14:23] were going to blow up cities and all [01:14:25] this [01:14:27] that actually when we act boldly and [01:14:28] courageously and we do hard and big [01:14:30] things the other side isn't nearly as [01:14:32] powerful as they say they are i mean you [01:14:35] would think [01:14:36] that the potential repeal of roe versus [01:14:39] wade and by the way it doesn't get rid [01:14:40] of abortion just sends it back to the [01:14:41] states [01:14:42] just to make sure everyone's [01:14:44] understanding the collective freakout [01:14:46] the media is trying to induce on you i [01:14:48] wish it got rid of abortion that's a [01:14:50] separate issue but i'm just telling you [01:14:51] what it is [01:14:52] is that [01:14:54] instead [01:14:56] when we do big and hard and bold things [01:14:59] that we could be and we will be rewarded [01:15:01] for that the other side okay they go [01:15:03] scream at you and they'll protest you [01:15:05] what else you got [01:15:06] you know burn down another wendy's we [01:15:08] already saw how that works out you go [01:15:10] looting in the memory of okay we already [01:15:12] saw that works out [01:15:14] no [01:15:15] instead [01:15:16] when we stand up against that kind of [01:15:18] evil [01:15:19] then all of a sudden big and bold things [01:15:21] can happen [01:15:22] and to go back to the founding fathers [01:15:24] and the country in the nation that they [01:15:26] founded that we all get a chance to live [01:15:28] in it's nothing short for it's nothing [01:15:30] short of than a gift from the lord it [01:15:32] really is [01:15:33] you look at the sacrifices and the [01:15:34] system checks and balances consent to [01:15:36] the governed separation of powers [01:15:38] independent judiciary presumption of [01:15:40] innocence and you look around the world [01:15:42] and you say wow the window of freedom is [01:15:44] closing and we have a choice [01:15:46] as citizens and that's an important [01:15:48] distinction [01:15:49] which is [01:15:50] you can when you live in a country most [01:15:53] people that have ever lived most people [01:15:55] that have ever breathed [01:15:56] they live as a serf [01:15:58] or as a subject or as a slave [01:16:02] you get a chance to live as a citizen [01:16:04] it's a totally different thing [01:16:06] you know what citizens get to do [01:16:08] they get to displace bad people when [01:16:10] they make bad decisions [01:16:13] citizens get to run for office [01:16:16] citizens get to question their [01:16:18] government so there's a couple questions [01:16:20] that are happening in america do you [01:16:21] want to have the few rule the many are [01:16:23] the many rule the few [01:16:24] we want the many to rule the few [01:16:26] obviously [01:16:27] we don't want the ruling class this [01:16:30] group of elites that are pushing the [01:16:32] sort of venomous insidious poisonous [01:16:34] ideology on us to go unchecked but you [01:16:37] know the great check is the great check [01:16:39] is you [01:16:40] and we're starting to see it change [01:16:42] you know people ask all the time they [01:16:44] say charlie do you think we're winning [01:16:46] or losing so it depends how you're [01:16:47] keeping score but at least let me hear [01:16:49] me out with this [01:16:51] cnn plus lasted like two scaramucci's [01:16:54] right it lasted like two weeks [01:16:57] disney down 40 percent [01:17:01] by the way [01:17:02] we're never using disney again right [01:17:04] we're never using these people can't we [01:17:06] canceling disney cancelling hulu [01:17:10] netflix [01:17:12] what's this [01:17:14] lauren everybody she hosts the event [01:17:17] [Applause] [01:17:21] she says we have a call [01:17:23] from somebody special [01:17:25] okay okay [01:17:28] um [01:17:29] hello [01:17:31] hello [01:17:34] hello everybody [01:17:37] hello mr president welcome to the young [01:17:39] women's leadership summit at turning [01:17:41] point usf [01:17:44] [Applause] [01:17:50] so mr president we have that's great [01:17:52] it's great to be with you even if it's [01:17:54] just through the telephone but [01:17:56] charlie asked me if i'd call and i said [01:17:59] absolutely which charlie wants me to [01:18:00] call i call [01:18:02] so it's really good to be with you he's [01:18:04] a fantastic guy and they're doing great [01:18:06] work [01:18:06] and there are a lot of young [01:18:07] conservatives i think far far more i [01:18:10] think we have more than they do you want [01:18:11] to know the truth [01:18:13] but there are a lot of young [01:18:14] conservatives around that i can say [01:18:16] well we totally agree mr president and i [01:18:18] can tell you this room is a hundred [01:18:20] percent with you 2 500 young [01:18:23] conservative women and [01:18:27] that's great [01:18:28] so thank you for calling this yeah well [01:18:30] we're doing well and we're really uh [01:18:33] the other side is helping a lot by [01:18:35] having the worst economy by having the [01:18:36] worst of everything with the afghan the [01:18:38] way they withdrew and all of the things [01:18:41] the war with ukraine would never have [01:18:43] happened 100 [01:18:45] so the other side what they're doing is [01:18:47] so terrible for our nation but it'll get [01:18:50] straightened out you'll watch and you'll [01:18:52] be very happy [01:18:55] well thank you mr president i can tell [01:18:57] you this room is 100 with you and we [01:18:59] have your back god bless you [01:19:02] thank you [01:19:05] so charlie thank you very much and you [01:19:07] just take care of yourselves take care [01:19:09] of charlie he's a great guy and i'll see [01:19:11] you soon charlie [01:19:13] thank you mr president god bless you [01:19:15] thank you thank you have a good time [01:19:17] thank you so long everybody [01:19:18] [Applause] [01:19:20] how about one more cheer for the [01:19:21] president how great is that [01:19:27] it's amazing just to tell you how [01:19:29] loved you guys are and [01:19:31] i was talking to him yesterday and he [01:19:33] said i'd love to call in the biggest [01:19:35] young conservative women's leadership [01:19:37] summit in the country i'll close with [01:19:39] this as you know many of you as many of [01:19:41] you know we just launched turning point [01:19:43] action and turning point pack and in [01:19:45] fact this morning is brought to you by [01:19:47] that is that we are going to be getting [01:19:50] involved in the grassroots holding our [01:19:52] candidates accountable [01:19:54] and drafting candidates and [01:19:57] if you believe [01:19:58] that you want to run for office please [01:20:01] go find somebody that is working for [01:20:03] turning point action [01:20:05] we have to have people run for school [01:20:06] boards for city council we have to have [01:20:09] people run for everything dog catcher [01:20:10] you name it [01:20:12] and [01:20:13] i just want to close with this [01:20:15] which is this event that you're at is [01:20:17] obviously getting eyeballs from the top [01:20:19] levels of [01:20:20] of everything [01:20:21] and there's a reason for that it's [01:20:23] because [01:20:24] you as young conservative women rising [01:20:27] up are the greatest you are the greatest [01:20:30] threat to the left right now and what [01:20:32] you are doing is so special and you are [01:20:35] living in a moment right now where this [01:20:37] republic we're not a democracy or a [01:20:39] republic [01:20:43] is going to be saved by citizens every [01:20:46] day citizens rising up that are going to [01:20:49] be taking bold and courageous action [01:20:53] and you are all living as part of this [01:20:55] so people say charlie do you think are [01:20:57] you optimistic or are you pessimistic i [01:20:59] say it depends but here's what i know at [01:21:02] turning point usa and at turning point [01:21:04] action we are making hope happen people [01:21:07] say charlie do you have hope i say i [01:21:09] have hope because of what we're doing [01:21:12] because we're no longer watching from [01:21:13] the sidelines but we're in the trenches [01:21:16] and we're in the arena and all of you [01:21:18] are fighting alongside me and turning [01:21:20] point usa and turning point action to [01:21:22] help make that possible god bless all of [01:21:24] you we'll see you later thank you [01:21:36] [Music] [01:21:40] what's up ywls paige rue here this is [01:21:43] one of the most epic events in the [01:21:44] conservative movement obviously but the [01:21:47] party doesn't stop here you yes you can [01:21:49] get involved in tpusa action happening [01:21:52] around the country throughout the year [01:21:54] learn more start a chapter and maybe [01:21:56] even meet more two-way bodies by texting [01:21:58] paige to 7-17-76 [01:22:02] don't miss your shot [01:22:03] i'm a woman who's had an abortion [01:22:06] i've been in an abortion clinic i've sat [01:22:08] on the table and i know what it's like [01:22:10] to be in a position where you feel like [01:22:12] you have no choice [01:22:13] [Music] [01:22:17] preload is a ministry that i founded to [01:22:21] primarily fill gaps in the pro-life [01:22:23] movement [01:22:25] i have a heart to see women empowered [01:22:28] i have a heart to see women healed [01:22:32] many of the women that we serve are just [01:22:34] like me [01:22:36] and so i want to give them hope i want [01:22:39] them to know that [01:22:40] abortion isn't the answer [01:22:43] and i want to serve them and i want to [01:22:44] serve them well [01:22:46] it's going to require though for all of [01:22:48] us [01:22:49] to step in and to fill some of those [01:22:51] gaps [01:22:52] and and to meet these women where they [01:22:54] are and to walk alongside them in this [01:22:57] journey [01:22:58] we're looking forward and we're hoping [01:23:01] for a post row america so we want to [01:23:03] pool our resources and come together and [01:23:06] steward them well to be able to serve [01:23:07] women all over this great nation and i [01:23:10] believe that if we lead with love [01:23:13] then we're guaranteed victory [01:23:14] one of the things that was said to me by [01:23:16] my boss when i left planned parenthood [01:23:18] is that i had made an enemy [01:23:21] of [01:23:22] one of the most powerful organizations [01:23:24] on the planet [01:23:26] but that's such a lie because the most [01:23:28] powerful organization on the planet [01:23:31] is the church [01:23:33] [Music] [01:23:36] we can make a difference [01:23:39] [Music] [01:23:50] ladies please welcome to the stage [01:23:51] victor and eileen marks [01:24:06] [Music] [01:24:07] myself [01:24:10] [Music] [01:24:16] thank you all so much [01:24:18] wow this is incredible [01:24:21] how about that time with charlie [01:24:26] and then the president calling [01:24:28] [Applause] [01:24:31] incredible [01:24:33] well let's let's get right down the [01:24:35] business this is uh [01:24:37] everybody wants to know about the dog [01:24:39] this is [01:24:40] this is scout [01:24:42] no she knows this is reagan [01:24:46] so scout is our belgium alamo but reagan [01:24:49] is our dutch shepherd [01:24:51] and she's she's always looking for [01:24:53] people who aren't paying attention [01:24:57] or man with beards [01:25:03] so reagan [01:25:05] friggin [01:25:06] stop the fixation please [01:25:10] come in here [01:25:12] so reagan is actually my wife [01:25:14] my bride eileen's dog [01:25:17] and she was with us [01:25:19] in both iraq and syria [01:25:21] so [01:25:22] that that kind of sounds odd but help us [01:25:24] understand how many of you are not [01:25:26] familiar with our story could you raise [01:25:28] your hand so we know okay great what [01:25:31] what how many of you follow us on social [01:25:34] media [01:25:35] thank you thank you guys [01:25:38] so this is my wife's dog and she is [01:25:40] sweet [01:25:41] um [01:25:42] and yet she's very focused can you see [01:25:45] that [01:25:46] yes i call her my furry missile [01:25:50] she is when we first got her i had to [01:25:52] watch myself [01:25:56] leave it [01:25:57] people think she's a statue sometime [01:26:01] oh she's looking over here somewhere [01:26:03] yeah she's [01:26:05] there we go no worries [01:26:09] uh [01:26:11] well let me actually [01:26:13] uh let me give it to one of our team [01:26:15] members [01:26:16] is my [01:26:17] shiloh here [01:26:19] lindsay okay [01:26:21] why don't you take her [01:26:26] i don't know [01:26:34] well today we're going to talk to you a [01:26:35] little bit about relationships [01:26:38] and [01:26:40] medage [01:26:45] by the way this is my young person close [01:26:49] nice [01:26:50] very nice [01:26:54] is the first time i've not spoken in [01:26:56] boots and jeans and one of my jackets in [01:26:59] forever [01:27:00] but she says honey you got you gotta [01:27:02] that's right he rocks it doesn't he [01:27:06] [Applause] [01:27:08] i feel six months younger [01:27:12] so let me tell you a little bit about us [01:27:14] to put in context what we're going to [01:27:15] talk to you about we have a organization [01:27:18] called all things possible [01:27:20] we're going on 20 years [01:27:22] and we actually [01:27:25] have [01:27:26] rescued wreaths recovered and helped [01:27:29] young women your age and children [01:27:32] who've been held captive by isis [01:27:36] are affected by isis overseas [01:27:39] and to date we've reached and helped [01:27:42] it's over 43 000 [01:27:44] girls and women right now [01:27:50] we actually still have a safe house in [01:27:53] iraq we were just there about four [01:27:55] months ago [01:27:56] and [01:27:57] since the fighting has been over [01:28:00] bad things still happen but 48 hours [01:28:03] after we're back in country at our house [01:28:05] a young woman [01:28:08] 18 years old [01:28:10] who was held captive for seven years by [01:28:12] isis she was abducted at 11 years old [01:28:16] and her mother and father were killed [01:28:19] she's been suffering as a sex [01:28:22] trafficked young girl [01:28:24] she was in our house 48 hours after we [01:28:26] landed in country and you know what [01:28:29] that's the power of prayer [01:28:31] good team members [01:28:32] and uh we we just appreciate those of [01:28:34] you who help us with that [01:28:39] now i would have never gone to iraq if [01:28:41] it wasn't for [01:28:43] this one [01:28:44] i just come back from berber my [01:28:46] background is i served in the marine [01:28:48] corps many many years ago [01:28:50] thank you [01:28:54] then went into ministry i realized god [01:28:57] gave me a gift to lay hands on people [01:29:00] and [01:29:03] that's a biblical reference some people [01:29:05] you may need to clarify what does that [01:29:08] mean [01:29:09] well some people need their feelings [01:29:11] hurt amen [01:29:13] some bad people just we call it the [01:29:14] manifestation of evil need to be [01:29:17] stopped [01:29:18] and uh held accountable so [01:29:21] but i i just come out of burma this was [01:29:24] a number of years ago when eileen tells [01:29:26] me honey [01:29:28] we need to go to iraq [01:29:30] as in you need to go to iraq put a team [01:29:32] together and i was like hey i gotta rest [01:29:35] up a little bit babe and and this is the [01:29:38] influence and power of a woman [01:29:42] it's more than you know trust me [01:29:45] i think one of the lies that this [01:29:47] culture tells you [01:29:49] is you're not really [01:29:50] powerful you know you have to take a [01:29:52] second seat to everybody let me tell you [01:29:55] what if it wasn't for my wife i probably [01:29:58] wouldn't have gone into iraq taking a [01:30:00] team and started rescuing recovering [01:30:02] women and children from isis and helping [01:30:04] them that's right that's right that's [01:30:06] right [01:30:10] i just put it in context [01:30:13] i got the team together we're ready to [01:30:15] go [01:30:16] and my wife goes hey babe [01:30:18] i feel like i'm supposed to go with you [01:30:21] i said no you're not [01:30:24] no no way [01:30:26] and then we got an argument [01:30:28] a discussion [01:30:32] we i have to be careful because she's [01:30:34] actually a black belt [01:30:37] she's former mixed fitness usa [01:30:39] she can shoot multiple anything you put [01:30:42] in her hand [01:30:43] bow and arrow darts [01:30:46] drive [01:30:49] she's literally the real laura croft i'm [01:30:51] going to tell you right now [01:30:54] and she tells me [01:30:55] i think i'm supposed to go [01:30:57] and i show her all the horrible pictures [01:31:00] of my she said [01:31:01] what's the worst that can happen [01:31:04] i go wait a minute why do you want to go [01:31:07] and she said because i know you'll find [01:31:09] those girls [01:31:11] but you can hug them [01:31:13] but i can [01:31:15] and i said you're willing to risk your [01:31:17] life just to hug girls who've been held [01:31:18] captive [01:31:20] she goes what's the worst that can [01:31:22] happen babe [01:31:24] we die [01:31:26] and i was like [01:31:27] yeah [01:31:28] yeah [01:31:29] the whole death thing that's yeah it's a [01:31:32] big one [01:31:33] and you know what our answer was [01:31:35] well then don't we win because we go to [01:31:38] heaven anyway [01:31:39] that's my bride that's my bride [01:31:44] that's right [01:31:46] and here is my strong man [01:31:49] did you get that [01:31:54] and ladies [01:31:56] i love what charlie said about we need [01:31:58] strong men [01:31:59] we our nation need strong men like no [01:32:02] other time but you know what we need [01:32:04] strong women [01:32:05] and in order to have strong men [01:32:08] ladies [01:32:09] you need to know who you are [01:32:13] you need to know your value and your [01:32:15] worth [01:32:17] because if you don't know that how do [01:32:19] you raise the measuring stick for a man [01:32:22] that you want to be strong [01:32:24] yes [01:32:28] because [01:32:29] we came into our marriage [01:32:32] neither one of us [01:32:35] shall i just say it [01:32:38] both of us had had relationships before [01:32:40] we came into our marriage [01:32:41] so we had the world experience [01:32:44] and we realized [01:32:46] this is not working well for us [01:32:49] so we said we're going to do it god's [01:32:51] way [01:32:53] so a strong man he was a strong man he [01:32:56] did not compromise he didn't want me to [01:32:58] compromise [01:32:59] that to me [01:33:01] is one of the greatest gifts that we [01:33:02] have in our marriage but let me tell you [01:33:04] ladies our identity [01:33:07] is not hid and what you do [01:33:10] it's not hidden your bank account it's [01:33:13] not hidden what people say about you [01:33:15] it's not hidden the jewelry that the [01:33:17] cars none of that matters [01:33:20] do you know where your value is at [01:33:23] do you know how much you're worth [01:33:26] this is the secret ladies this is the [01:33:28] secret [01:33:29] if you know who you are your life will [01:33:32] be different [01:33:34] and let me tell you let me tell you i [01:33:37] don't know if you understand this or [01:33:38] even believe it but you have an enemy [01:33:41] who wants to discredit you [01:33:44] he wants to tell you that you're not [01:33:47] valuable that you're not worth anything [01:33:49] he wants to [01:33:51] take away the influence you have as a [01:33:53] woman [01:33:54] and guess where this started [01:33:58] ladies this started back in the garden [01:34:00] of eden [01:34:03] when the enemy who was a snake [01:34:06] is talking to eve [01:34:08] my first thought is what are you doing [01:34:10] talking to a snake [01:34:13] but a conversation started and his whole [01:34:15] purpose [01:34:17] was to discredit god [01:34:19] to get eve [01:34:21] to not believe god's goodness for her [01:34:24] life [01:34:26] and guess what she believed it [01:34:28] and from that moment [01:34:30] the enemy has been trying to discredit [01:34:33] god and dismantle women and your purpose [01:34:35] in your life [01:34:37] now let me tell you a scripture that [01:34:39] changed my world [01:34:41] i was over i was in my 30s i had three [01:34:43] children i didn't know who i was yet but [01:34:46] let me tell you a scripture that changed [01:34:48] my world do you want to know what it is [01:34:51] it's in it's king david king david said [01:34:54] it and it's in psalm 139 [01:34:56] and this one scripture says i will [01:34:59] praise you for i am fearfully and [01:35:02] wonderfully made [01:35:05] marvelous are your works that my soul [01:35:07] knows [01:35:09] very [01:35:10] well [01:35:11] when i realized who i was [01:35:13] my life changed [01:35:16] if you love reading and i know you all [01:35:19] of you gals are readers because you're [01:35:21] leaders would you [01:35:23] look at psalm 139 because the whole [01:35:25] chapter talks about who you are [01:35:28] and who god is it will change your world [01:35:30] it has changed my world psalm 139 [01:35:38] i just want to get on and give you a [01:35:40] movie kiss watching you i just wanna [01:35:42] ride on your mouth honey you can right [01:35:45] now you can't [01:35:47] hey i think about adam in the garden [01:35:50] where was he when another man was [01:35:52] talking to his woman that's right where [01:35:55] was he that's what i want to know what's [01:35:57] up [01:35:58] somebody talk to my wife i'm right there [01:36:00] next to him what's up [01:36:04] huh [01:36:06] that ain't gonna happen [01:36:11] yes what would you do if you were in the [01:36:12] garden with me yeah you'd have a new [01:36:14] pair of boots and a matching belt in [01:36:16] person [01:36:19] thank you i'd use that snake for the [01:36:21] right reason [01:36:24] right thank you very much [01:36:28] you know honor is so important in [01:36:30] relationships and [01:36:32] she's she is speaking truth to y'all and [01:36:35] she says [01:36:36] you're the one that can help raise the [01:36:38] standard of a man's life to be a strong [01:36:41] man [01:36:42] but in order to do that you really have [01:36:44] to be a strong woman [01:36:46] does that make sense [01:36:48] i mean one of the best things my wife [01:36:51] has told me when we weren't [01:36:54] doing well [01:36:56] when i wasn't doing well [01:36:58] this is a little marriage tip a little [01:37:00] marriage tip [01:37:01] she goes babe [01:37:03] leave me better than this [01:37:05] you can lead me better than this [01:37:12] and if you're a single gal and there's [01:37:13] some [01:37:15] you know jack wagon not treating you [01:37:17] with respect and all that [01:37:19] just look at him and go you're a you're [01:37:21] a better man than that [01:37:23] turn around or walk away [01:37:25] or if he's got his hands on your throat [01:37:27] punch him [01:37:29] and um [01:37:31] then walk away self-defense comes in [01:37:33] handy ladies i'm just going to say [01:37:36] now when she talks about when we met [01:37:39] and we got sweet on each other [01:37:41] uh [01:37:44] isn't that a sweet way to say that [01:37:46] i [01:37:47] i got sweet first [01:37:50] and [01:37:51] it took her about a year to realize you [01:37:53] know all this [01:37:58] [Applause] [01:38:04] strong back weak mind i i was she came [01:38:07] into a church where i was at to get [01:38:09] counseling because she had a jack wagon [01:38:12] boyfriend and she's like yeah you know i [01:38:15] don't know he just really doesn't act [01:38:17] like a christian i'm a new christian he [01:38:18] says he's a christian but he wants to [01:38:20] party i'm just i'm not into that anymore [01:38:22] what he and i i wasn't even a pastor on [01:38:24] staff i was just i was like hey can i [01:38:27] give you my opinion [01:38:30] he's a spawn of satan you need to dump [01:38:33] this dude right now [01:38:36] and in the same night i'm like so i'm [01:38:39] i'm [01:38:41] i'm available [01:38:43] uh i told her i said i'm not even [01:38:46] looking to date i just want to marry a [01:38:48] woman who's going to help me follow the [01:38:50] lord we'll probably end up in africa [01:38:52] somewhere you know [01:38:54] uh it was iraq but we have gone to north [01:38:57] africa before uh on mission [01:39:00] like really special mission we were in [01:39:02] and out of the country in [01:39:03] 24 hours [01:39:06] that's something made for a movie i can [01:39:07] tell you right now but [01:39:09] it was amazing because she and [01:39:11] graciousness just said yeah let's uh [01:39:14] yeah i'm i'm not sure [01:39:17] let's uh [01:39:18] but you know what have patience with [01:39:20] young men and and look i apologize on [01:39:23] behalf of young men right now in our [01:39:25] country [01:39:26] who are more interested in gaming [01:39:28] than being honorable to girls you know [01:39:31] that's [01:39:36] uh it's i apologize [01:39:39] for pastors who are more passive than [01:39:43] they are courageous in wanting you to [01:39:45] know about faith and your just your [01:39:47] feelings [01:39:50] i apologize for parents that didn't step [01:39:53] up dads who were absent and didn't give [01:39:55] you protective love knowing that you [01:39:59] were heading into minefields [01:40:02] and maybe they felt hypocritical but [01:40:03] parents [01:40:04] you're not a hypocrite if you're not [01:40:06] practicing what you did as a kid you [01:40:08] should be able to look at your young [01:40:10] lady [01:40:11] and tell them the truth [01:40:13] this is the pitfalls these are the [01:40:15] minefields don't go that way [01:40:18] does that make sense [01:40:20] yeah so [01:40:22] so we waited [01:40:24] we did wait and this is a very important [01:40:26] part of i believe [01:40:28] relationships because today our culture [01:40:31] does not honor that at all [01:40:34] so waiting is like you're living the [01:40:36] archaic stone ages but you know when you [01:40:38] choose to wait ladies [01:40:41] you are speaking of your value [01:40:44] yes [01:40:48] and guess what you're making a man a [01:40:51] young man a man [01:40:54] and he can wait [01:40:56] if he thinks he wants to marry you and [01:40:58] you know what we also believe [01:41:01] marriage is such a good thing [01:41:03] marriage is the first institution god [01:41:06] ever created how long we've been married [01:41:09] this december will be 34 years [01:41:12] [Applause] [01:41:19] i did know that [01:41:21] anniversary celebration it's not until [01:41:23] december but i think we should practice [01:41:25] it all year long [01:41:27] so ladies i just want to tell you you [01:41:30] are the one that holds the standard i've [01:41:31] already told you that but you are the [01:41:33] ones that hold the standards not him do [01:41:36] you do you realize that [01:41:38] if you raise a bar [01:41:40] guess what he'll come up to that bar [01:41:42] it's true and gals i know we live in a [01:41:44] culture where it's like where are the [01:41:46] guys we have three daughters [01:41:49] two are married [01:41:51] we have one that just graduated high [01:41:52] school [01:41:54] uh part of the honor society she's the [01:41:56] smart one she took of her mom she's [01:41:58] actually here today for the first time [01:42:00] and i'm so grateful for you sweetie i'm [01:42:02] looking for you [01:42:03] we won't give her name because of [01:42:05] privacy and then actually we have a son [01:42:07] here we have five children we have two [01:42:11] two uh [01:42:12] young man [01:42:14] and then [01:42:16] they're both single [01:42:19] one is sixteen he should be single [01:42:23] and one thirty where are you at i'm i'm [01:42:26] a pimp him out today you just stand up [01:42:28] and [01:42:30] he i know him he's gonna hide like a [01:42:32] ninja [01:42:34] but waiting is great it is great it [01:42:38] shows that you both have one you value [01:42:41] yourself you're honoring god and guess [01:42:43] what else [01:42:45] we wait [01:42:46] i'm not saying it's easy [01:42:48] no but it's the right thing to do [01:42:50] and our engagement we were it was short [01:42:53] it was a short engagement hey [01:42:55] hey it's okay i think it was like 90 [01:42:57] days and i was like we better get [01:42:59] married [01:43:02] and uh but you know what you'll have to [01:43:05] go against what this culture says and if [01:43:08] a guy isn't willing to wait on you [01:43:10] then he's not worth you [01:43:14] if he's not willing to wait he ain't [01:43:15] worth you [01:43:18] i come from a pretty dysfunctional [01:43:20] family and i had a brother tell me he [01:43:23] says hey man when we got engaged he's [01:43:25] like so uh [01:43:26] how is she [01:43:28] i said how is she what [01:43:30] he said you know [01:43:32] how she in bed [01:43:34] i said [01:43:35] i already told you we chose to wait [01:43:37] be you know because you can regardless [01:43:40] of your background you can stop today [01:43:42] and choose to wait you can buy yourself [01:43:45] and go [01:43:46] that's my past this is my future [01:43:49] and he goes man you can't come on man [01:43:52] you you can't get married he goes what [01:43:54] if you're not [01:43:56] sexually compatible [01:43:59] and then i was like [01:44:01] oh i never thought about that [01:44:04] and then i feel like god gave me the [01:44:06] perfect response to him my brother who [01:44:08] lives in houston i said uh he's a car [01:44:11] collector i said you like ferraris right [01:44:13] he said yeah of course [01:44:15] i said if we went to the dealership [01:44:17] right now [01:44:18] and you could walk on the showroom floor [01:44:20] pick any ferrari you wanted and they [01:44:22] give you the key and they give you the [01:44:24] title [01:44:25] the only thing they said is you can't [01:44:26] test drive it but you can have it would [01:44:29] you take it he goes of course i'd be [01:44:31] foolish if i didn't i said that's right [01:44:35] i found a ferrari [01:44:37] i ain't got a test driver [01:44:41] ladies [01:44:43] that's the kind of man you want [01:44:45] someone who honors you [01:44:48] yes [01:44:50] i mean a ferrari [01:44:51] thank you [01:44:55] so you know we don't have a lot of time [01:44:57] but we want to tell you just a few [01:44:59] things about marriage because again [01:45:01] marriage is so strong we believe in it [01:45:03] we believe it's for you ladies if you [01:45:05] feel you want to go there but what are [01:45:07] the few things that we have put on our [01:45:10] foundation for marriage [01:45:12] well one we learned to fight [01:45:15] back to back not knows the notes [01:45:18] that's right and we've done it literally [01:45:20] and figuratively [01:45:21] because we've been in [01:45:23] every hostile environment [01:45:25] i've been shot at by for the work we do [01:45:28] bringing kids in from also during the [01:45:30] fighting [01:45:31] mortared our family had to hide for [01:45:33] three days in iraq from isis because [01:45:36] they were trying to track us down [01:45:39] so we've learned [01:45:40] to fight back to back not nose to nose [01:45:43] and then bring god in the middle of all [01:45:45] as a referee [01:45:47] right yes that's right but also i would [01:45:50] say on our marriage because we waited we [01:45:53] proved to each other and the lord [01:45:56] that after we were married [01:45:58] we can still be faithful yes no one's [01:46:00] going to catch our eye [01:46:02] no one because we proved [01:46:04] to each other does that make sense [01:46:06] because i know a lot of you are hesitant [01:46:08] about getting married because family's [01:46:10] been divorced and all that and i'm [01:46:12] telling you [01:46:13] my mom was married six times [01:46:16] i want she must have liked that wedding [01:46:18] song that's all i got to say [01:46:20] we ended up buying for her on a cd and [01:46:22] said mom just listen to that when you [01:46:24] get the itch [01:46:26] but [01:46:27] but don't give up on marriage and you [01:46:29] should be one to get married [01:46:31] early [01:46:32] because guess what if you get married [01:46:34] early that diminishes the whole [01:46:37] temptation [01:46:39] yes don't be doing married folk stuff [01:46:43] which is what [01:46:45] what is it [01:46:46] yes [01:46:49] was that a trick i was like i don't know [01:46:50] why no that is [01:46:52] not so the other take out the garbage [01:46:55] the other thing that [01:46:56] yes take out the garbage too of course [01:46:59] yes [01:47:00] the other thing that we think is very [01:47:02] important is trust [01:47:04] and trust is something that if you don't [01:47:07] have in your marriage [01:47:10] it's very very hard to build on that so [01:47:12] if you're dating somebody right now [01:47:15] that you have any questions can you [01:47:17] trust them [01:47:19] this is not something you want to go [01:47:21] forward in [01:47:22] because it doesn't get better [01:47:24] so trust is something you cannot [01:47:27] negotiate it can't be counterfeited you [01:47:30] either have it or you do not [01:47:34] and don't let loneliness push you past [01:47:36] the point of your [01:47:37] own boundaries does that make sense yes [01:47:40] don't let don't let loneliness [01:47:42] all right because you you may feel alone [01:47:44] but you're not [01:47:46] yes all right and again you bet you have [01:47:48] to be able to look at yourself you know [01:47:50] one of the things that was appealing to [01:47:51] me about her [01:47:52] she didn't need a man [01:47:55] that was very insensitive [01:47:58] i was like oh my gosh yes she knows who [01:48:01] she is she's going for it and yet she [01:48:04] loved the lord more than anything and [01:48:05] i'll never forget she was a new [01:48:07] christian i was the new christian [01:48:08] remember we wouldn't have that little [01:48:10] dinner [01:48:11] yeah you ate that big shake i didn't [01:48:13] really like peanuts it was a big [01:48:14] chocolate peanut butter chicken i was [01:48:15] like how did you [01:48:16] you ate lettuce and then a big chocolate [01:48:19] chip i don't [01:48:20] get it but okay [01:48:21] and uh [01:48:22] [Laughter] [01:48:25] i just lost my train of thought [01:48:27] 51 seconds i know but what was i talking [01:48:29] about it was going to be good no i don't [01:48:30] know but but here's here's the thing [01:48:33] here's what we really want to encourage [01:48:34] you okay we believe [01:48:36] you know stay pure and listen if you [01:48:39] haven't and you've made that mistake [01:48:41] stop [01:48:42] turn around and start going the right [01:48:43] way because you can do it the lord wants [01:48:46] to help you do that you are worth it [01:48:51] yes [01:48:52] well i think we covered it all [01:48:55] strong marriage [01:48:56] gotta get married early [01:48:59] save yourself for marriage yes [01:49:01] be a ferrari worth it it is so worth it [01:49:04] to save yourself i cannot emphasize it [01:49:07] enough because you have a life [01:49:10] long opportunities to love each other [01:49:13] and it's just you too yep [01:49:16] you know [01:49:18] here we are 34 years yes [01:49:21] five children [01:49:23] four grandbabies four grandbabies [01:49:26] and we've never cheated or been cheated [01:49:28] on that's right and we want to hold the [01:49:30] standard for you all that it can be done [01:49:32] regardless of your background you put [01:49:34] god in the center of that relationship [01:49:37] know who you are and know that he's got [01:49:39] a mission for you [01:49:41] we're planning to go back to iraq [01:49:43] then colombia then cambodia where we [01:49:47] actually hunt pedophiles so will y'all [01:49:49] remember us as we hop down [01:49:57] well thank you all for the opportunity [01:49:58] to be here it has gone by fast we we [01:50:01] underneath your chair [01:50:05] is [01:50:07] two books that my wife wrote and it's a [01:50:09] gift to y'all from us [01:50:12] because i know y'all want to know more [01:50:13] about what we're doing [01:50:15] because love matters don't ever give up [01:50:17] on love [01:50:18] and i would say uh hey i gotta my friend [01:50:20] steven is he here i want him to to come [01:50:23] on out [01:50:27] and you know what [01:50:30] let's give my buddy a big hand [01:50:37] what's going on everybody [01:50:38] [Applause] [01:50:41] how are we doing today dad garnet [01:50:44] are we having a good time [01:50:46] ywls [01:50:48] 2022 [01:50:50] let's go [01:50:51] come on now [01:50:52] now this is a good day [01:50:54] not only did we get to hear from [01:50:55] president trump [01:50:56] huh how about that [01:50:59] not only [01:51:01] do we get to hear from this wonderful [01:51:03] couple [01:51:04] but it is my lady's birthday [01:51:09] you know i had to embarrass you girl [01:51:12] so why don't you come on up cause i want [01:51:14] your help in helping me sing her happy [01:51:16] dad go on birthday [01:51:18] on her day [01:51:20] come on up girl [01:51:27] [Applause] [01:51:30] yes [01:51:33] so one [01:51:35] two [01:51:36] three [01:51:37] happy birthday [01:51:39] to [01:51:40] you [01:51:41] [Music] [01:51:42] happy birthday [01:51:44] to [01:51:45] you [01:51:47] happy [01:51:48] birthday [01:51:50] dear daisy [01:51:54] happy birthday [01:51:57] to [01:51:58] you [01:51:59] [Applause] [01:52:03] this is what it's about right here [01:52:06] this is what it's all about ladies and [01:52:07] gentlemen and that's why i love [01:52:10] victor marx is such an incredible person [01:52:11] because this is the type of man [01:52:13] ladies [01:52:14] you should be trying to acquire [01:52:17] jordan peterson talked about a harmless [01:52:19] man right he said a harmless man is not [01:52:21] a good man a good man [01:52:23] is a very dangerous man he keeps himself [01:52:25] under voluntary control [01:52:28] that's what it's about that's the type [01:52:30] of man you should be trying to seek [01:52:32] after [01:52:33] a man who's unafraid to show his love [01:52:35] for you a man is unafraid [01:52:37] to be himself [01:52:39] to show you the most vulnerable parts of [01:52:42] himself [01:52:43] that's what it's all about [01:52:44] you got to find a man who's unafraid to [01:52:47] be himself with you to be unafraid to [01:52:50] learn her love language [01:52:52] that's what it's all about ladies and [01:52:54] gentlemen you got to find yourself a man [01:52:56] who's unafraid to get on one knee [01:53:01] [Applause] [01:53:29] ladies and gentlemen [01:53:31] this daisy sereno [01:53:33] soon to be davis miss mega hope let's go [01:53:38] let's go [01:53:42] [Music] [01:54:02] open borders shameful abandonment [01:54:04] disregard for human life the prospect of [01:54:07] more mandates and lockdowns and the list [01:54:10] goes on [01:54:11] now more than ever we need to stick [01:54:13] together [01:54:15] voting alone is not enough we 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gentlemen at patriot mobile [01:57:36] we know [01:57:37] that the only way to stop a bad guy with [01:57:39] a gun [01:57:40] is a good guy with a gun [01:57:46] the people who want to take away your [01:57:48] rights have armed [01:57:50] security [01:57:52] they're hypocrites [01:57:54] do not let them take your rights away [01:57:57] the sanctity of life we support [01:58:00] organizations that stand up and help [01:58:02] women who are in crisis pregnancies give [01:58:04] them a place to live give them [01:58:06] counseling [01:58:07] show them they are loved and forgiven [01:58:10] and we're supporting organizations too [01:58:12] that are getting ready [01:58:14] for what we hope is a slew of women [01:58:16] because we are going to get row thrown [01:58:20] out [01:58:27] and finally our [01:58:29] military and first responders [01:58:32] the people who protect our borders [01:58:34] the people who run into burning [01:58:36] buildings when we're all running out [01:58:38] god bless the men and women who are on [01:58:41] the front lines keeping us safe [01:58:49] now i hope all of you guys come to our [01:58:51] booth [01:58:52] we want you to come talk to us we want [01:58:54] to get to know you we've already gotten [01:58:56] to know so many young ladies yesterday [01:58:58] last night was fabulous [01:59:01] but we want you to be able to take [01:59:03] something with you [01:59:04] want to know what you guys think about [01:59:06] our shirts [01:59:07] [Applause] [01:59:14] so you can get these shirts a couple of [01:59:15] ways you can come to our booth [01:59:17] and just sign a little form and get one [01:59:21] or [01:59:22] who's a good catcher [01:59:27] can i get joe lynn to stand up can i get [01:59:30] and y'all got to say it it's really his [01:59:32] name [01:59:33] brandon to stand up [01:59:37] i need josh and riley to stand up [01:59:40] where's ariel [01:59:42] can you stand up brittany stand up okay [01:59:45] y'all i want to see how good your arms [01:59:47] are put your hands up we're going to [01:59:49] throw these out let's go brandon [01:59:54] god bless you guys [01:59:56] god bless patriot mobile come see us [01:59:58] take care [02:00:03] [Music] [02:00:22] [Applause] [02:00:24] [Music] [02:00:30] this is the end of the logic of the [02:00:31] pro-abortion case the same legislators [02:00:34] who are pro-abortion were happy to vote [02:00:36] yes on the bill criminalizing animal [02:00:38] cruelty on the federal level and while [02:00:40] i'm thankful for this i only wish the [02:00:42] same basic compassion could be extended [02:00:44] to the most vulnerable members of our [02:00:46] own species [02:00:52] [Applause] [02:00:55] [Music] [02:01:05] thank you guys so much for the warm [02:01:07] reception my favorite event of the year [02:01:13] thank you guys so much for being here i [02:01:16] truly do love ywls and i love talking to [02:01:19] you guys i love the energy that you [02:01:22] bring and just the commonality that we [02:01:24] all have that we are women who love a [02:01:26] good fight [02:01:28] we are women who love the truth we love [02:01:32] we are women who love to do and to know [02:01:34] what's right and that's a little bit [02:01:36] what we're going to talk about today so [02:01:38] i want to start in a little bit [02:01:40] different of a way [02:01:41] that i typically start i'm going to [02:01:44] start by reading from the first chapter [02:01:48] of the first book of the bible and [02:01:51] that's going to yeah woo for the bible [02:01:56] and that's going to kick us off where [02:01:58] we're going to go today so first genesis [02:02:00] 1 1 the most important and the most [02:02:02] controversial verse of the bible i like [02:02:04] to say [02:02:05] that in the beginning god created the [02:02:07] heavens and the earth he created the sun [02:02:09] moon and stars he created the earth and [02:02:11] the land he created night and day [02:02:14] everything that we see everything that [02:02:16] is in the world is here because god [02:02:18] created it and holds it together [02:02:21] he also created [02:02:23] human beings genesis 1 27. so god [02:02:26] created man in his own image in the [02:02:28] image of god he created him [02:02:30] male and female [02:02:33] he created them [02:02:34] now [02:02:36] things start to go south pretty badly if [02:02:39] you are familiar with the beginning of [02:02:40] human history if you are familiar with [02:02:43] the beginning of the bible the first two [02:02:45] chapters explain how god created the [02:02:47] heavens and the earth gave male and [02:02:49] female man and woman to one another and [02:02:52] also gave them dominion over the world [02:02:54] to take care of the plants of the [02:02:57] animals to [02:02:59] to work the ground and to keep the [02:03:01] garden and said just one thing that from [02:03:04] the fruit of the tree of the knowledge [02:03:06] of good and evil you shall not eat [02:03:09] everything else you can have you have [02:03:11] access to and dominion over by my good [02:03:14] and gracious hand but this is the one [02:03:16] thing you shall not do [02:03:18] and then [02:03:19] genesis 3 [02:03:21] something happens now the serpent was [02:03:23] more crafty than any other beast of the [02:03:25] field that the lord god had made he said [02:03:27] to the woman [02:03:29] did god actually say you shall not eat [02:03:32] of any tree in the garden and the woman [02:03:34] said to the serpent we may eat of the [02:03:36] fruit of the trees in the garden but god [02:03:38] said you shall not eat of the fruit of [02:03:40] the tree that is in the midst of the [02:03:41] garden neither shall you touch it lest [02:03:43] you die but the serpent said to the [02:03:46] woman you will not surely die [02:03:49] for god knows that when you eat of it [02:03:51] your eyes will be opened and you will be [02:03:53] like god [02:03:55] knowing good and evil so when the woman [02:03:58] saw that the tree was good for food it [02:03:59] was a delight to the eyes that the tree [02:04:01] was to be desired to make one wise she [02:04:04] took of its fruit and ate [02:04:06] and she also gave some to her husband [02:04:08] who was with her and he [02:04:11] ate that's genesis 3 [02:04:13] 1 through 6. [02:04:15] there are many lessons that we can draw [02:04:17] out of just the first three chapters of [02:04:20] the bible alone but there are just a few [02:04:21] things that i want to highlight that [02:04:23] will launch us into the rest of what [02:04:24] we're talking about [02:04:26] one [02:04:26] god who made all things who is the [02:04:29] creator and the authority over [02:04:30] everything also made us and when he made [02:04:34] us he gave us a name he didn't just make [02:04:37] us as human beings he didn't make us his [02:04:39] clumps of cells he didn't make us as [02:04:40] balls of matter he made us in his image [02:04:44] as a woman [02:04:46] god is [02:04:47] maker of all things and therefore he [02:04:49] alone has the authority to tell us who [02:04:52] we are what we are and what we are worth [02:04:56] he made us women [02:04:58] and specifically [02:05:00] he says that that the woman was created [02:05:03] to be [02:05:04] a helper to be a helper to the man and [02:05:08] when he makes woman as a helper he says [02:05:10] that it's not just good [02:05:12] that's the adjective that he used to [02:05:14] describe the rest of creation but when [02:05:16] he made human beings in his image male [02:05:18] and female he said he saw that it was [02:05:21] very good [02:05:23] the third thing i want to highlight is [02:05:24] that the woman was satan's first target [02:05:28] the woman was the first recipient the [02:05:30] first believer in the first target of [02:05:33] propaganda [02:05:35] of temptation [02:05:36] she was tempted into a few things she [02:05:38] was tempted into doubting god in his [02:05:41] word doubting god's faithfulness [02:05:43] doubting god's wisdom [02:05:45] doubting god's goodness tempted into [02:05:47] believing [02:05:48] most of all most dangerously of all that [02:05:51] she was a god herself that she could [02:05:54] become like god so immediately we see [02:05:58] satan sow seeds of dissatisfaction in [02:06:01] eve [02:06:02] about being [02:06:03] a woman [02:06:04] immediately she wants to be something [02:06:06] else she wants to be like god how god [02:06:10] created her who god created her to be [02:06:12] immediately was not [02:06:15] enough [02:06:16] being a woman [02:06:18] was not enough [02:06:20] he tells her you are not made to be a [02:06:22] helper satan says but you are actually [02:06:24] made to be like god [02:06:28] now [02:06:29] what if i told you [02:06:31] that the same lie [02:06:33] is being fed to women today and has [02:06:36] throughout all of human history it's [02:06:38] taken on [02:06:40] new forms that being a woman is not good [02:06:43] enough being a helper [02:06:45] is not powerful enough it's not [02:06:47] successful enough [02:06:48] and it's not just that we hear the lie [02:06:50] of feminism that you must be like a man [02:06:54] to be successful or you have to be a man [02:06:57] to be great but also that you can be [02:07:00] your own god [02:07:02] still we are being tempted with did god [02:07:05] really say [02:07:07] and if you do this you can be like god [02:07:09] you can be your own god now what do i [02:07:12] mean by that how is that showing up [02:07:15] it's showing up in the pithy phrases [02:07:17] that you see in your self-help books [02:07:19] that you see in cute instagram graphics [02:07:21] that we're probably all internalizing [02:07:23] without realizing it [02:07:25] we're told that you can be your own god [02:07:27] when we're told [02:07:28] live your truth [02:07:30] decide what's good for you [02:07:33] you do whatever makes you happy you be [02:07:36] around only the people that serve you [02:07:38] don't do anything [02:07:40] that doesn't make you feel good put off [02:07:42] the hard stuff the stuff that requires [02:07:45] sacrifice because all that really [02:07:46] matters is that you feel good about [02:07:48] yourself you are the source of your own [02:07:50] truth you're the arbiter of morality [02:07:52] you're the source of your own love and [02:07:54] satisfaction you're enough for yourself [02:07:57] you're perfect the way you are we are [02:07:59] constantly ascribed to these god-like [02:08:01] characteristics in order to make us feel [02:08:03] better about ourselves but it's a lie [02:08:06] it's always been a lie [02:08:08] you and i are human beings we're finite [02:08:11] we're fallible we're not perfect the way [02:08:12] we are we're not enough for ourselves [02:08:15] god made us this way and yet we are [02:08:18] still believing the lie that we can be [02:08:21] like god and it's manifesting itself [02:08:24] through narcissism [02:08:26] through glorified narcissism through [02:08:28] trendy narcissism that says all you have [02:08:32] to do in life is make yourself happy cut [02:08:35] off the people that don't make you happy [02:08:36] don't do the job that doesn't make you [02:08:38] happy don't be in the hard friendship or [02:08:41] maybe the difficult marriage that [02:08:43] doesn't make you happy don't have kids [02:08:44] because kids are hard [02:08:46] put off marriage put off commitment put [02:08:49] off sacrifice put off family put off [02:08:51] having babies because all of that is [02:08:53] hard and it might inhibit your happiness [02:08:55] and if you are your own god the only [02:08:57] thing that matters is that you feel good [02:09:01] how's that working out for us [02:09:04] how does that motto how does that [02:09:06] mentality seem to be working out for the [02:09:08] women of this world [02:09:11] are they happy [02:09:13] are they confident [02:09:14] are they satisfied are they at peace or [02:09:17] man are we struggling with deep [02:09:19] insecurity [02:09:21] and self-loathing [02:09:22] and purposelessness and meaninglessness [02:09:25] and depression and anxiety and feelings [02:09:28] of suicide and loneliness how can that [02:09:31] be if we are truly our own gods if we [02:09:33] are enough for ourselves if we really [02:09:35] are perfect the way we are as we are [02:09:37] told constantly if we are told to [02:09:39] constantly prioritize our happiness why [02:09:41] are we so sad [02:09:44] why are we so dissatisfied [02:09:47] because [02:09:49] satan is still sowing the seeds of doubt [02:09:53] in women in all of us about who we are [02:09:56] and why we are here we are being told to [02:10:01] be your own god to be your own moral [02:10:03] arbiter to be your own master to do [02:10:05] whatever you want to do eat the fruit [02:10:09] it tastes good you'll be like god the [02:10:11] fruit of narcissism the fruit of [02:10:13] self-centeredness the fruit of laziness [02:10:16] the fruit of addiction to comfort and [02:10:18] convenience the fruit of ease [02:10:20] and i'm here to tell you there is a [02:10:23] better way [02:10:24] for us [02:10:25] women [02:10:27] and this moment that we are in this [02:10:29] moment of history this tiny speck of [02:10:31] eternity on which god has providentially [02:10:34] placed us requires a better way it [02:10:37] requires better women [02:10:40] than the examples [02:10:42] that we are given in the media in [02:10:44] hollywood on social media [02:10:47] women who first and foremost [02:10:50] know what a woman is [02:10:52] and rejoice [02:10:53] in being made a woman [02:11:00] rejoice in being made not just human [02:11:03] beings not just people but [02:11:05] women [02:11:06] by the god who created us rejoicing in [02:11:08] our dna rejoicing in our [02:11:11] biology all of the characteristics that [02:11:14] make us us [02:11:17] and women who rejoice in our calling [02:11:20] to be [02:11:21] helpers [02:11:23] to be in many ways servants women who [02:11:26] pour ourselves out who sacrifice who [02:11:29] embrace challenge and difficulty [02:11:32] for the sake of making the spears that [02:11:34] we occupy and the people that occupy [02:11:37] them better [02:11:40] now what exactly [02:11:42] does that look like practically tangibly [02:11:44] what does that look like [02:11:46] well first we need to recognize that [02:11:47] every woman is called to be a helper [02:11:50] that doesn't mean that you're not on [02:11:52] stage that doesn't mean that you're not [02:11:53] on the forefront here i am [02:11:56] helping looks you know [02:12:00] there's a variety of ways that women are [02:12:02] called to being helpers however what i [02:12:04] would say is that every woman stay with [02:12:08] me for a second [02:12:09] every woman has not only the capability [02:12:13] but also the calling [02:12:15] to be a mother [02:12:17] now [02:12:18] wait wait [02:12:22] that does not necessarily mean [02:12:25] that every single woman is going to be a [02:12:27] biological mother [02:12:29] now that is a wonderful calling it is [02:12:32] the best thing besides being a follower [02:12:34] of christ and a wife to my husband that [02:12:35] i am i love being a mom to my two little [02:12:39] girls [02:12:41] i love raising them i love [02:12:44] discipling them i love them with my [02:12:46] whole heart i can't imagine loving [02:12:48] anything anymore i would die a thousand [02:12:50] deaths for them i want every woman to [02:12:53] experience what it feels like to love a [02:12:56] child and just the self-sacrifice that [02:12:58] you were so willing and eager to give on [02:13:00] a daily basis for the human beings that [02:13:01] god has given you but that's not [02:13:03] everyone's calling [02:13:05] and i do just want to say that if you [02:13:07] are not a mother if you are never be a [02:13:09] mother that does not mean that you are [02:13:11] not called to mother [02:13:13] because mothering [02:13:15] doesn't just look like physical [02:13:17] motherhood although that's great yes it [02:13:19] can look like adoptive motherhood but it [02:13:21] also looks like spiritual motherhood [02:13:23] it also looks like mentorship so what i [02:13:27] mean [02:13:27] by saying that every woman is called to [02:13:31] mother what i mean is that every woman [02:13:33] has a role to play [02:13:35] in using her unique capabilities as a [02:13:38] woman to shape to protect and to prepare [02:13:42] the next generation for what's to come [02:13:48] so [02:13:49] whether or not god blesses you with [02:13:52] physical children i pray he does that [02:13:54] might not be his plan for you do you not [02:13:56] feel [02:13:57] like you don't have the ability or the [02:13:59] calling or the purpose to mother don't [02:14:01] feel like you are incomplete don't feel [02:14:03] like you are less than don't feel like [02:14:04] you are less than a woman [02:14:07] not everyone is called to that not [02:14:09] everyone is going to be given a husband [02:14:11] and a child i know sometimes it's hard [02:14:12] to hear but that's true that doesn't [02:14:14] mean that god doesn't have amazing [02:14:16] things in store for you when it comes to [02:14:18] preparing the next generation for the [02:14:20] challenges that we know that they are [02:14:22] going to face you have a part every [02:14:25] single person in this room has a part in [02:14:28] being a form of a mother for the next [02:14:30] generation [02:14:32] and women [02:14:33] have the unique capabilities the unique [02:14:35] characteristics in doing that we are [02:14:38] natural nurturers we are natural [02:14:40] multitaskers and maximizers and [02:14:43] cultivators and creators and beautifiers [02:14:46] we are really good at entering a space [02:14:49] and making it better [02:14:51] and making the lives of the people who [02:14:54] occupy the spheres that we are in [02:14:57] better that is how we are called to be [02:15:01] helpers [02:15:02] that is how we are called to be servants [02:15:04] servant leaders [02:15:06] and servants [02:15:07] now there are a few ways that this is [02:15:09] going to show up right now in our [02:15:11] current moment when it comes to [02:15:13] protecting and preparing mentoring [02:15:15] mothering the next generation [02:15:17] like there are some things that we are [02:15:19] going to be protecting our kids from [02:15:22] and whether they're your kids or someone [02:15:24] else's kids we are going to be fighting [02:15:26] for our kids against for example the [02:15:29] destruction of gender ideology [02:15:32] that is ruining people's lives that's [02:15:35] mutilating women's bodies young girls [02:15:37] getting their healthy breasts cut off [02:15:39] because someone on tumblr told them that [02:15:41] they might be a boy because they like to [02:15:42] wear pants more than a skirt [02:15:45] like we are standing up for those people [02:15:48] we're standing up for the vulnerable [02:15:49] kids we're standing up for the kids who [02:15:51] are being indoctrinated by activist [02:15:53] teachers and being told to question the [02:15:56] body the dna that god gave them just [02:15:58] because they might have different [02:16:00] interests [02:16:01] that's a problem [02:16:06] as a woman who is made in the image of [02:16:08] god who is made with innate capabilities [02:16:11] to mother that means you have the innate [02:16:13] capability and should have the drive to [02:16:15] also be a mother bear [02:16:17] to be protective that should piss you [02:16:20] off that there are kids who are being [02:16:22] told that their body is not good in the [02:16:24] age of self-love we're actually telling [02:16:26] kids to hate themselves [02:16:28] to the point of genital mutilation to [02:16:31] the point of chemical castration to the [02:16:32] point of [02:16:33] slicing up their bodies to be something [02:16:36] that they will never really be and the [02:16:38] rates of suicide and depression and [02:16:40] anxiety don't go down after that [02:16:42] mutilation takes place [02:16:45] we are protecting our kids not just from [02:16:47] that we are also literally protecting [02:16:49] kids being sent to the slaughter through [02:16:51] abortion [02:16:53] thousands of babies [02:16:55] every day and don't let people tell you [02:16:57] they're not full-term babies too [02:16:59] although in all stages of pregnancy if [02:17:01] they are made in the image of god and [02:17:02] equally valuable [02:17:04] but [02:17:07] this is happening through all nine [02:17:09] months of pregnancy and you guys know on [02:17:12] my podcast i make a point to describe [02:17:15] what abortion actually is what the [02:17:17] procedure actually is it is brutal it is [02:17:19] poisoning it is sending a chemical [02:17:22] combination of poison into the baby's [02:17:25] heart while the baby is still alive [02:17:27] forcing [02:17:28] a fatal heart attack so that baby dies [02:17:31] and then is dismembered and removed [02:17:33] that's what abortion is it is violent it [02:17:36] is brutal [02:17:37] it is child sacrifice [02:17:40] and so we as women as protectors of the [02:17:43] next generation we fight to protect and [02:17:45] preserve those lives [02:17:47] we all have a role in mothering and [02:17:50] protecting the most vulnerable we [02:17:53] protect them against all kinds [02:17:55] of secular progressive destructive [02:17:58] destructive indoctrination including the [02:18:01] racial essentialism that is tearing our [02:18:03] country apart [02:18:04] including this idea that if you have [02:18:07] less melanin you're on the side of the [02:18:09] oppressor if you have more melon and [02:18:10] you're on the side of the oppressed [02:18:12] you're inherently privileged or you're [02:18:14] inherently set back we protect our kids [02:18:16] from that kind of destructive mentality [02:18:19] that is only going to lead to mediocrity [02:18:22] and hatred and resentment [02:18:24] we are preparing our kids for the [02:18:26] challenges that are ahead [02:18:29] and we use our god-given capabilities [02:18:32] our god-given characteristics as women [02:18:35] to do that [02:18:36] we help the world we help the next [02:18:38] generation we mother them by speaking [02:18:40] the truth in love by teaching the truth [02:18:43] by living the truth by embracing who we [02:18:46] are as women teaching the next [02:18:48] generation of girls to do the same thing [02:18:52] and so there are really three [02:18:54] quick points just just quick [02:18:57] tips or pieces of advice that i would [02:18:59] love for you to remember just three [02:19:02] phrases that i like to say a lot so that [02:19:04] i would hope that you would take home [02:19:07] number one [02:19:08] choose your hill [02:19:10] choose your hill that you're willing to [02:19:11] die on [02:19:13] now [02:19:14] we can't die on every hill [02:19:16] you cannot care about every issue [02:19:18] equally because as we said in the [02:19:20] beginning you're not god we're not god [02:19:22] so we don't have the full capacity to do [02:19:24] that you cannot we all have experienced [02:19:26] compassion fatigue with the 24-hour news [02:19:29] cycle you can't care [02:19:31] about every issue that you hear about [02:19:33] that you read about [02:19:35] with the same fervor you just can't you [02:19:37] don't have the ability to do that you [02:19:38] can't care about every single issue with [02:19:41] the exact same passion so choose the [02:19:43] issues choose the issues that really [02:19:45] matter [02:19:46] is it the fact that a woman is a woman [02:19:48] are you going to fight against gender [02:19:49] ideology by going to your school board [02:19:51] by trying to [02:19:53] peacefully protest some of these child [02:19:56] drag shows that you're seeing in your [02:19:58] area are you going to be standing up for [02:20:01] women in female sports [02:20:04] if that is your hill figure out how to [02:20:06] organize how to find like-minded people [02:20:09] and to push back against it in a kind [02:20:11] and peaceful and truthful way is it [02:20:13] abortion [02:20:14] figure out ways in your area to advocate [02:20:16] for the moms and the children who are in [02:20:19] crisis to push for good abortion [02:20:20] legislation but also to make sure that [02:20:22] those women are cared for as they bring [02:20:24] new life into the world choose your hill [02:20:27] can't have a million hills choose your [02:20:30] hills decide to focus on that know as [02:20:32] much as you can about those issues find [02:20:34] like-minded people that feel the same [02:20:36] passion that you do about those issues [02:20:38] organize and activate and do something [02:20:41] about them [02:20:42] and then number two [02:20:44] as you are engaging in that share arrows [02:20:48] share the arrows [02:20:50] so we all know what it's like [02:20:52] to be criticized at the very least at [02:20:54] the worst cancelled [02:20:55] for [02:20:56] our unpopular out of the mainstream [02:20:59] views whether it's about abortion or [02:21:01] gender or god or marriage or the economy [02:21:04] whatever it is the second amendment we [02:21:06] all know what it's like to get bullied [02:21:09] to get pushed back to get really mean [02:21:12] messages and sometimes to be cut off by [02:21:14] people in our lives by our family [02:21:17] members people who we thought were our [02:21:18] friends just because of what we believe [02:21:20] politically or morally or theologically [02:21:23] and when you see someone publicly when [02:21:25] you see someone in this room when you [02:21:27] see someone you know or maybe you don't [02:21:29] know but say you see them online and [02:21:31] they've stood up they've stood up for [02:21:33] what they believe is right when it comes [02:21:35] to traditional marriage or abortion and [02:21:37] they're taking heat for it [02:21:39] they are [02:21:41] having calls for people to cancel their [02:21:43] business they're leaving negative [02:21:45] reviews they're getting arrows launched [02:21:47] to them because of those unpopular views [02:21:49] rather than you looking on and saying [02:21:51] i'm glad that's not me [02:21:53] learned my lesson [02:21:55] hopefully that won't happen to me [02:21:56] hopefully the mob won't come for you [02:21:57] news flash the mob is coming for you [02:22:00] the mob is coming for you so when you [02:22:02] see the mob being sticked on someone [02:22:04] else because of views that you have to [02:22:07] rather than saying i hope that doesn't [02:22:09] happen to me you stand up and you say [02:22:11] you can send those arrows my way too [02:22:14] i'll take them i'll take them i'll share [02:22:16] those arrows i believe that too if you [02:22:19] see someone in your class at school high [02:22:21] school university who is being maligned [02:22:23] for their views on something that you [02:22:25] believe too rather than shrinking back [02:22:27] and saying oh [02:22:29] that sucks you stand up and you say yeah [02:22:31] i believe that too she's right [02:22:33] and you be willing to take the arrows [02:22:35] that is a way to love other people [02:22:41] that's a way to love other people as you [02:22:43] would want to be loved because if that [02:22:44] were happening to you wouldn't you want [02:22:46] someone else to stand up with you [02:22:48] wouldn't you want someone else to stand [02:22:50] up in solidarity with you [02:22:52] so you be that for other people courage [02:22:54] begets courage [02:22:56] i can't tell you how many people have [02:22:58] told me that because the listeners of my [02:23:01] podcast because we talked about their [02:23:02] story or something on my podcaster i [02:23:04] shared about it on instagram [02:23:05] the listeners of my podcast reached out [02:23:08] to that person and said stand strong [02:23:10] you're doing the right thing god is with [02:23:12] you keep going don't close down your [02:23:14] business don't take down your account [02:23:17] don't apologize don't backtrack you said [02:23:20] something you believe and guess what i [02:23:21] believe it too and i'm with you to share [02:23:23] those arrows and i want to encourage you [02:23:25] and build you up at the game changer [02:23:28] courage is a game changer [02:23:32] allow [02:23:33] yourself to borrow [02:23:35] someone else's courage if you don't have [02:23:36] it and if you do have it allow other [02:23:39] people to buy yours [02:23:40] borrow yours don't sell it to them [02:23:44] so share arrows and then the last one [02:23:47] raise a respectful raucous [02:23:53] for the things that matter [02:23:55] so you choose that hill [02:23:59] you share those arrows and then you [02:24:01] raise a respectful freaking ruckus [02:24:04] for the things that you care about a [02:24:06] respectful relentless [02:24:09] ruckus you keep pushing you keep [02:24:11] speaking up you don't compromise never [02:24:14] apologize for something that you're not [02:24:15] sorry for [02:24:19] do not compromise do not caveat it do [02:24:22] not nuance something that you know is [02:24:24] right stand firm in it [02:24:26] stand for a minute and we all i'll make [02:24:28] a commitment i will everyone in this [02:24:30] room will stand up with you and share [02:24:33] your arrows [02:24:34] and together together we can make a [02:24:38] difference [02:24:39] and together we can change the culture [02:24:41] together we can be strong protectors [02:24:44] helpers mothers [02:24:46] fierce mothers of the next generation as [02:24:50] they face the challenges that they do [02:24:52] thank you so much [02:24:58] [Music] [02:25:12] what's going on y'all this is amazing [02:25:15] thanks for coming out don't you want to [02:25:17] be around these people all the time if [02:25:19] so text get involved 27 1776 to find out [02:25:23] how you can or if you want to invite me [02:25:26] or other contributors to your campus to [02:25:27] scare your snowflake colleagues text [02:25:30] chapter to build tpusa at your school [02:25:33] text 71776 [02:25:37] [Music] [02:25:48] do [02:25:50] [Music] [02:25:53] [Applause] [02:25:57] [Music] [02:25:59] [Applause] [02:26:00] [Music] [02:26:03] well hello [02:26:04] we are so happy to be here with all of [02:26:06] you beautiful young women who are going [02:26:10] to be the leaders of conservatism and [02:26:13] faith and family and america [02:26:15] into the next generation [02:26:18] so glad to be here today and i'm [02:26:19] jennifer van laar i'm managing editor at [02:26:21] red state [02:26:23] people [02:26:24] have read my articles probably don't [02:26:25] realize what a pro-life [02:26:28] passion that i have and i'm so happy to [02:26:29] be here today with these ladies to talk [02:26:32] about that and how you can be leaders [02:26:34] within this movement too [02:26:36] so i'm going to have each of the [02:26:37] panelists introduce themselves [02:26:39] thank you jennifer my name is lila rose [02:26:42] and [02:26:43] [Applause] [02:26:46] and i am a proud mom of two i'm one in [02:26:49] heaven so three come total i am a wife [02:26:52] and i'm the founder and president of [02:26:53] live action so please come by our booth [02:26:56] later but i'm really grateful to be with [02:26:58] all of you um live action's the leader [02:27:01] for the pro-life movement in digital [02:27:02] activism and education so we reach [02:27:04] millions of people every week with the [02:27:06] truth about abortion and human dignity [02:27:08] and it's really all of you and all of us [02:27:10] that are frontlining this fight for life [02:27:12] and i'm really excited about to talk [02:27:14] about it today with jennifer and these [02:27:15] lovely ladies so thanks thanks for being [02:27:17] here [02:27:20] hi there i'm kind of the new kid on the [02:27:22] block here i am megan basham i work for [02:27:25] the daily wire [02:27:29] i knew i knew that would get a cheer at [02:27:31] least [02:27:33] and i am a culture reporter so i cover a [02:27:36] lot of things in the faith arena in the [02:27:38] entertainment arena and i talk a lot [02:27:40] about how pop culture informs how we [02:27:43] think about these issues [02:27:45] i am a mom myself i am i'm probably the [02:27:47] oldest one on the panel so i have a [02:27:49] junior higher and one who is going into [02:27:52] the third grade so i spent a lot of [02:27:55] years at home taking care of them and [02:27:58] and really watching all of this unfold [02:28:00] until one day with my little job um with [02:28:04] an evangelical magazine which i loved [02:28:06] and still love i i decided i need to get [02:28:08] in the fight i i couldn't sit back [02:28:10] anymore and i called the daily wire and [02:28:12] just said hey can i have a job [02:28:15] and i started talking to them and [02:28:17] so that's why i'm here today was i just [02:28:20] i couldn't sit back anymore and i had to [02:28:21] get in the fight [02:28:26] well hello ladies and the few gentlemen [02:28:28] out there i'm jenna ellis great to see [02:28:30] you [02:28:33] and uh you all know me of course from uh [02:28:36] my role with president donald trump as [02:28:38] his senior legal advisor and counsel [02:28:41] and i'm an attorney yeah give president [02:28:43] trump a hand so it's so great to be with [02:28:45] you and i'm a newsmax contributor now [02:28:47] and all of you need to subscribe to my [02:28:49] podcast the jenna ella show because on [02:28:51] that show we take the issues of politics [02:28:55] and really distill where do we need to [02:28:58] look at this from the christian [02:28:59] worldview from the truth-based worldview [02:29:01] because [02:29:03] my journey in law started when god [02:29:05] called me to law at the age of 14 so for [02:29:07] all of you out there never ever doubt [02:29:09] that god can place a calling on your [02:29:11] life at a very very young age i had no [02:29:14] idea what he was going to do with my [02:29:15] life [02:29:16] and be sitting here with you today but [02:29:18] what i have been so passionate about in [02:29:20] law and advocacy [02:29:22] is to teach and advocate the truth [02:29:26] of the constitution and not just these [02:29:28] top-level political issues but really [02:29:30] why are we advocating for truth why do [02:29:33] we have the best and the only argument [02:29:35] and why do we care so much about [02:29:38] preserving and protecting all of our [02:29:40] rights including the right to life that [02:29:41] we're gonna be talking about today [02:29:42] because it's based on the truth of the [02:29:45] word of god and we absolutely have to [02:29:48] continue that message so i'm so excited [02:29:49] to be here with you today [02:29:52] thank you ladies [02:29:53] so i should add [02:29:55] that i am a mother of three boys and [02:29:58] grandma of one perfect little girl named [02:30:00] daisy [02:30:01] and that is the best thing that has ever [02:30:03] happened to me was motherhood and [02:30:05] grandmotherhood that's even better uh [02:30:08] but [02:30:08] like jenna i felt a calling in my life [02:30:11] young to be [02:30:12] in the business world and to be doing a [02:30:14] lot outside the home but i also [02:30:17] never wanted anything more than to be a [02:30:19] mom [02:30:20] and i think that [02:30:22] that resonates with this pro-life [02:30:25] movement and everything that we want to [02:30:28] do to protect the next generation of [02:30:30] girls and boys [02:30:32] that so that they can even just get to [02:30:34] this earth and have the opportunities [02:30:36] that we've all had [02:30:38] so i'm going to share a really personal [02:30:40] story from my family of how [02:30:43] abortion can affect [02:30:45] women and even [02:30:47] the rest of the family as kind of an [02:30:49] introduction [02:30:51] to what we're going to talk about today [02:30:53] so i shared this on twitter right after [02:30:55] the news broke that [02:30:57] roe vs wade could possibly be overturned [02:31:00] which is wonderful news [02:31:04] i'm definitely praying for that so i [02:31:07] grew up in a faith-based home i grew up [02:31:10] being pro-life and then my parents [02:31:12] divorced and [02:31:14] when i was 19 i was visiting my mom for [02:31:16] spring break and came in one evening [02:31:19] to find her just sobbing uncontrollably [02:31:22] on the couch [02:31:24] and i thought oh my something terrible [02:31:26] must have happened and i rushed to her [02:31:28] and put my arms around her [02:31:30] and it took her a few minutes to compose [02:31:32] herself when i asked what's wrong and [02:31:34] she said you know [02:31:36] i was pregnant [02:31:38] and [02:31:40] i'm over 40. [02:31:41] she was on [02:31:42] some mental health medications [02:31:44] they advised her to have an abortion [02:31:47] and she did [02:31:48] but the significance of that day why i [02:31:50] found her there crying was because [02:31:53] that's the [02:31:54] the day that the baby was supposed to be [02:31:55] born [02:31:56] a day that's etched in her memory the [02:31:58] last 30 years [02:32:00] of course i cried with her i couldn't [02:32:02] believe it especially growing up in a [02:32:04] faith-based home [02:32:06] but she was single scared um [02:32:11] and getting advice from medical [02:32:13] professionals that this was the best [02:32:14] thing for her to do [02:32:16] it took her a couple of decades to even [02:32:20] somewhat begin to forgive herself [02:32:22] for that our entire family has mourned [02:32:26] that loss of my sibling [02:32:28] um my oldest son's 27 my sibling would [02:32:31] have been 30 this year how cool would [02:32:33] that have been to have them grow up [02:32:34] together and have that in our family my [02:32:38] my mom now [02:32:40] has [02:32:41] taken that pain and works with women who [02:32:44] are feeling regret and depression [02:32:46] after having an abortion and especially [02:32:48] in the faith-based community that [02:32:51] sometimes women feel [02:32:52] that have made made that choice maybe [02:32:54] they weren't particularly faithful [02:32:56] before that and then they [02:32:58] are trying to find peace they feel [02:33:00] sometimes [02:33:01] that they can't be redeemed from that [02:33:03] because they took a life [02:33:05] but i'm here to tell you that they can [02:33:09] that as jenna had shared backstage that [02:33:12] there's not one sin that the blood of [02:33:14] christ doesn't cover [02:33:21] so when i shared that story on twitter [02:33:24] a month ago about um got a lot of slings [02:33:27] and arrows from that but i also heard [02:33:28] from a lot of my longtime twitter [02:33:30] friends just ladies maybe in their 50s [02:33:32] as well [02:33:33] that said i still regret [02:33:36] what i did 10 20 30 years ago it still [02:33:39] affects me or that or people that ended [02:33:42] up marrying the the man that [02:33:44] whose baby they had aborted to put it [02:33:46] bluntly and but that they as a couple [02:33:49] still worn that oldest child that they [02:33:51] didn't have [02:33:52] so we're here to help educate you on [02:33:55] some of the facts about this and give [02:33:57] you the tools so that you can help [02:33:59] prevent [02:34:00] this from happening to other families [02:34:02] and that you can help women heal who [02:34:04] have been through this [02:34:09] well i'll jump in here thank you so much [02:34:11] for sharing your story [02:34:13] her story reached thousands and [02:34:15] thousands of people on twitter and a lot [02:34:16] of people opened up about sharing their [02:34:18] own abortions and how why they regretted [02:34:20] their abortions and helping other women [02:34:23] not make that same choice and so you [02:34:25] know the last 10 15 years i've been in [02:34:27] pro-life activism since i was a teenager [02:34:28] and doing undercover investigations of [02:34:30] the abortion industry and seeing [02:34:32] firsthand the lies that are being told [02:34:35] to us [02:34:37] every single day whether it's in [02:34:39] classrooms or through media or through [02:34:41] celebrities who are presenting [02:34:43] the death of a child as empowerment [02:34:47] and you know it takes [02:34:49] a voice even just one boy standing up to [02:34:52] say this isn't true [02:34:54] this is a life [02:34:55] women deserve better and that one voice [02:34:58] of truth breaking through the noise can [02:35:00] literally save lives [02:35:02] and i and i've seen this firsthand i [02:35:05] don't know here if anybody here follows [02:35:07] live action or does their own posting [02:35:08] online but we get messages [02:35:11] we get messages every day and our [02:35:12] followers get messages every day [02:35:15] different followers posting different [02:35:16] things there are thousands of these [02:35:18] messages from women or girls who saw a [02:35:21] pro-life post and because of that post a [02:35:24] fact about fetal development you know [02:35:25] the heart speeding at three and a half [02:35:27] weeks from fertilization it's amazing [02:35:29] how quickly that baby grows the facts [02:35:31] about the abortion procedure what the [02:35:32] abortion procedure actually does to kill [02:35:34] that baby and we're going to be [02:35:35] releasing a new campaign in two weeks [02:35:37] called abortion procedures at [02:35:39] abortionprocedures.com that you'll see [02:35:41] to help educate but these facts can save [02:35:44] lives if if we are willing to share them [02:35:48] if we're willing to share them and take [02:35:50] the heat and go out and share them and [02:35:52] not just facts about human life and [02:35:54] abortion but also facts about [02:35:56] healing healing and recovery and support [02:35:59] for women support for pregnant mothers [02:36:01] you know one of the resources that live [02:36:03] action frequently pushes is the is the [02:36:06] uh the whole network of pregnancy [02:36:08] resource centers thousands of them and [02:36:09] opportunities to get involved in [02:36:12] adoption or foster care support for [02:36:14] women who've had abortions who feel [02:36:16] abortion regret um rachel's vineyard is [02:36:18] an amazing organization all of these [02:36:19] resources are listed at liveaction.org [02:36:22] so be equipped with knowing what the [02:36:24] resources are so that we can then share [02:36:27] them and be ready to give [02:36:29] give the truth about this whenever [02:36:30] there's an opportunity because your [02:36:32] willingness to stand up and speak out [02:36:34] will literally save lives and today [02:36:36] people are desperate for help desperate [02:36:38] for truth there's so much confusion and [02:36:41] our voices are your voices are so needed [02:36:50] if i can just add to that you know we [02:36:51] open this panel with a personal story [02:36:54] and the impact of story that it has when [02:36:56] you share your own experiences when you [02:36:58] share the stories of people you've known [02:37:01] you know i will say that the pro-choice [02:37:02] side the left they use the power of [02:37:05] story really effectively and part of [02:37:08] what we're doing at the daily wire of [02:37:09] course is getting into the realm of [02:37:11] storytelling through entertainment and [02:37:13] another thing i do is i'm a rotten [02:37:15] tomatoes critic i'm a film critic and so [02:37:17] i talk a lot about how these narratives [02:37:20] inform how we think about issues and [02:37:23] sometimes what you'll see is that um [02:37:26] we we focus on statistics and that's [02:37:28] important but there are other people who [02:37:29] those go right in and out of their head [02:37:31] and i'll tell you my story because we [02:37:33] all have these stories that relate to [02:37:35] life and relate to what the cause of [02:37:37] life means my mom was 17 years old [02:37:41] unmarried high school student when she [02:37:43] got pregnant and i'm here today because [02:37:46] she chose to [02:37:48] bring me to full term to give birth to [02:37:51] me to keep me [02:37:52] um [02:37:54] yes [02:37:57] and you know she did it in an era when [02:38:00] not only was abortion legal but so [02:38:02] little was known about it we did not [02:38:04] have the ultrasounds and the information [02:38:06] that we have today so i look at someone [02:38:08] like my mom and i i look at my life and [02:38:11] i look at my kids and she looks at her [02:38:12] grandkids and we talk about how grateful [02:38:15] she is today how grateful i am obviously [02:38:18] that that i'm here and so um i i think [02:38:22] you know along with arming ourselves [02:38:23] with statistics even if you don't have [02:38:25] them don't be afraid to tell your [02:38:27] stories because we all have them and [02:38:29] they're all persuasive [02:38:34] we do all have stories and you may not [02:38:37] have a story [02:38:38] like these ladies here [02:38:40] you may not have a story that you feel [02:38:42] relates exactly to this but you do have [02:38:45] the story of christ to share and you do [02:38:47] have the love of christ to share because [02:38:48] one of the things that the pro-life [02:38:51] movement is often criticized for is that [02:38:54] well you're not caring enough of women [02:38:56] and you're not empathetic enough and how [02:38:58] dare you take away women's rights but [02:39:01] this isn't just about making abortion [02:39:03] illegal it's about making abortion [02:39:05] unthinkable and that's what we have to [02:39:08] do as the church [02:39:12] because when we choose to share our [02:39:14] stories and when we choose to share the [02:39:16] love of christ in his story and to say [02:39:19] you know i have sinned we all have [02:39:21] sinned and fall short of the glory of [02:39:22] god and your sin is no greater than [02:39:24] anyone else's and showing that there is [02:39:26] redemption there is love there is hope [02:39:29] no matter what we've endured in this [02:39:31] life that is a powerful message and so [02:39:34] as we're looking at all of the the [02:39:37] stories of women and you're looking at [02:39:39] how to best advocate [02:39:41] some of these things we have to debunk [02:39:43] and the myths that we have to debunk [02:39:45] first and foremost are that we have to [02:39:48] care about just the mother instead of [02:39:50] the life of the child in nowhere else at [02:39:54] all in our american justice system do we [02:39:57] ever punish an in an innocent [02:40:00] independent third party [02:40:02] for the actions of two other people [02:40:06] and that's what's going on in an [02:40:07] abortion an abortion is a medical [02:40:09] intervention [02:40:11] specifically designed to cause the death [02:40:13] of a human being and that's the truth [02:40:16] and we have to be willing to stand up [02:40:18] and say [02:40:19] we value and respect that all human [02:40:21] beings are made in the image of god and [02:40:23] have inherent dignity and worth and once [02:40:26] you ever draw that line anywhere else on [02:40:29] the spectrum of life from conception to [02:40:31] natural death if we choose to move that [02:40:33] standard [02:40:35] then where does that end and we've seen [02:40:37] that in politics and policy where now [02:40:40] the state of california and other [02:40:42] democrats are trying to say well [02:40:44] then after for an hour up to maybe 20 [02:40:46] days after the birth of a child then the [02:40:48] mother can choose [02:40:50] to not give life to that child or the [02:40:53] physician-assisted suicides the [02:40:55] end-of-life types of bills if we ever [02:40:58] move the brightline standard and say [02:41:00] that the moral truth comes from us [02:41:03] instead of god then the question becomes [02:41:06] did god create us or are we trying to [02:41:08] create god [02:41:09] and that is ultimately the original sin [02:41:12] right where man was trying to become [02:41:15] like god [02:41:16] and so all of these cases when we're [02:41:18] looking at the dobbs case that's [02:41:20] hopefully going to overturn roe versus [02:41:21] wade when we're looking at all of these [02:41:23] arguments we have to be telling our [02:41:25] stories with love but we also have to be [02:41:27] telling and speaking the truth in love [02:41:29] and the truth is that every human being [02:41:32] is valuable and if you draw that line [02:41:35] anywhere else i like to call it moral [02:41:37] gerrymandering because that's what [02:41:38] that's what they try to do right when [02:41:40] they try to draw the lines around [02:41:41] certain uh different demographics and [02:41:44] different districts because they want to [02:41:46] have [02:41:47] and incorporate certain voters that's [02:41:49] what they're doing with moral lines we [02:41:51] have to keep the moral lines fixed and [02:41:53] say that man cannot create god in our [02:41:56] own image we have to make sure that we [02:41:58] are always always advocating for truth [02:42:05] thank you [02:42:06] our discussion has taken probably a [02:42:08] little bit different turn than we had [02:42:10] talked about backstage but i think it's [02:42:11] been perfect because we have covered a [02:42:13] lot of the things that we wanted to [02:42:14] share and the main thing [02:42:16] like uh like you said megan [02:42:19] the the facts it's true the facts don't [02:42:21] care about our feelings but what [02:42:22] persuades people [02:42:24] is sharing our stories and we need to do [02:42:26] a much better job of sharing those [02:42:28] stories as a movement because [02:42:31] the latest polls show that 57 of [02:42:34] americans believe that a woman should be [02:42:36] able to get an abortion for any reason [02:42:38] so we've got a lot of minds to um [02:42:41] to sway and hearts to open and we can do [02:42:44] that with our stories and even if you [02:42:45] don't have a story like i give you all [02:42:47] permission to share what i shared with [02:42:49] you about my mom [02:42:51] if you don't have your own story [02:42:53] you can borrow one of ours you can also [02:42:55] just be that compassionate person a lot [02:42:58] of you you're at the age where [02:43:00] your friends could end up with a crisis [02:43:03] pregnancy [02:43:04] how are you going to talk to them i hope [02:43:07] that we've given you some examples of [02:43:09] things that you can [02:43:10] talk to them about to advise them to [02:43:12] choose life [02:43:13] and i encourage all of you to go to [02:43:16] lila's website to get all of the [02:43:18] wonderful stats and resources there that [02:43:20] you can share and just stand up and and [02:43:24] be bold as a woman and talk about that [02:43:26] motherhood is not a [02:43:28] a prison sentence it's not a terrible [02:43:30] thing it's the most wonderful thing that [02:43:32] you can do as a woman is to create life [02:43:34] and be proud of that and be unabashed [02:43:36] and sharing that with everyone [02:43:38] thank you so much for listening today [02:44:00] [Music] [02:44:02] no other surgical procedure has caused [02:44:04] more controversy and division than [02:44:06] abortion [02:44:07] i think this is the battleground culture [02:44:09] issue in america today their view is [02:44:12] that there is only one way to be a woman [02:44:14] in this society [02:44:16] more than ever it's important for [02:44:18] everyone to know where they stand on [02:44:20] abortion and why [02:44:24] in 2019 alone state abortion bills were [02:44:27] in direct opposition to one another [02:44:29] all the power in albany now in the hands [02:44:32] of democrats moving for quick passage of [02:44:34] an abortion rights bill provisions in [02:44:36] the bill include dropping most [02:44:38] restrictions on abortions after 24 weeks [02:44:41] allowing midwives and nurse [02:44:42] practitioners to perform abortions and [02:44:45] ending criminal charges for harming [02:44:47] children in the womb we're saying here [02:44:49] in new york [02:44:50] women's lives matter [02:44:53] the alabama bill essentially outlaws [02:44:55] abortion from the moment a woman becomes [02:44:58] pregnant the only exception would be if [02:45:00] her life was in danger the whole point [02:45:02] of this law is to establish that a fetus [02:45:05] is a person with rights now that is a [02:45:07] bold interpretation of human development [02:45:11] this isn't about protecting life if [02:45:13] that's what it was about then [02:45:14] republicans would invest money maternity [02:45:16] care parental leave universal pre-k or [02:45:18] any number of policies that would [02:45:20] actually help families raise children [02:45:21] what it's really about is depriving [02:45:22] women of their basic human rights [02:45:25] we often hear about the abortion issue [02:45:27] in regards to politics i strongly [02:45:29] support roe v wade which guarantees a [02:45:32] constitutional right to a woman but [02:45:35] abortion is more than a mere topic of [02:45:37] news and debates [02:45:38] it is a real occurrence in the lives of [02:45:40] people around us [02:45:42] in our schools [02:45:43] workplaces even churches [02:45:47] in hollywood and popular american [02:45:49] culture pro-choice is considered [02:45:51] ethically good and i wouldn't have been [02:45:53] able to do this [02:45:55] without employing a woman's right to [02:45:58] choose [02:46:00] [Applause] [02:46:04] they still identify as pro-choice [02:46:07] because they've picked up on the idea [02:46:08] that that's the right side to be [02:46:12] for many the issue is not so black and [02:46:14] white [02:46:16] many americans remain in the middle [02:46:18] holding personal beliefs yet not wanting [02:46:21] to impose them onto others so it's not a [02:46:23] sin in your church to have an abortion [02:46:26] um that's kind of conversation we would [02:46:28] have [02:46:29] finding out your story where you're from [02:46:31] people have to live with their own [02:46:32] convictions and i think if i have to [02:46:34] tell [02:46:36] you but before we claim to be only [02:46:39] personally pro-life shouldn't our first [02:46:42] responsibility be to understand the [02:46:44] pro-life case [02:46:46] or should we be content to form our [02:46:48] beliefs simply from what is said in the [02:46:50] media [02:46:51] we have planned parenthood do more to [02:46:52] prevent unintended pregnancies than any [02:46:55] other organization [02:46:57] there's a whole laundry list of things [02:46:59] that we know reduce the need for [02:47:01] abortions in america let's start with [02:47:02] sex education and contraception [02:47:05] if you want fewer abortions you should [02:47:07] love birth control you should be filling [02:47:10] pes dispensers with birth control pills [02:47:13] you should be giving condoms out to [02:47:14] trick-or-treaters and iud earrings out [02:47:17] as hostess gifts birth control should be [02:47:20] your favorite thing in the whole world [02:47:23] the right makes it sound like the left [02:47:24] just wants to kill babies and the left [02:47:26] makes it sound like the right just hates [02:47:28] women you actually do not care about [02:47:30] women you take it away [02:47:32] a baby dies in an abortion do you [02:47:34] realize that are you ignoring that fact [02:47:36] that's a that's a reality i am this is a [02:47:38] human life not illegal [02:47:45] i want the world to know that women in [02:47:47] my situation need support [02:47:50] finding that pregnancy center was the [02:47:52] only person i had to support me at that [02:47:54] time [02:47:57] i believe that being pro-life is the [02:47:59] most progressive value that we can have [02:48:04] she's got to know when she takes that [02:48:06] pregnancy test that her church is not [02:48:08] going to try to treat her like the [02:48:10] pharisees tried to treat the woman [02:48:12] caught in adultery [02:48:14] as the church we can't just vote [02:48:15] pro-life we have to be pro-love pro-love [02:48:18] is an action it's going beyond being [02:48:20] just pro-birth it's about pro-whole life [02:48:24] how is it that [02:48:26] we can trust an organization for whom [02:48:28] abortion is such an important part of [02:48:30] their business model [02:48:32] to [02:48:33] simultaneously effectively prevent [02:48:35] pregnancy and prevent abortion [02:48:39] when you're an obstetrician gynecologist [02:48:41] and you're pro-choice [02:48:43] you have to decide whether you're [02:48:45] actually going to do those abortions [02:48:48] you said what about a woman's right to [02:48:49] choose and my answer is to choose what [02:48:52] what are they choosing what does an [02:48:54] abortion do [02:49:10] up [02:49:17] don't want no attention on me
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